Is it normal that i want a guy that doesn't want sex?

I just want a guy who I can be really close to without being asked for sexual favors. It always angers me that I can't joke around sexually without them thinking I'm easy. I'm far from it!

Is It Normal?
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  • its normal for girls to be hypocrites and say I want a nice caring guy but go and date a** holes and have sex with them because they get desperate. I'm not saying you are because I don't know anything about you, just don't end up doing that. Seriously this one girl that I really felt happy with says she wants a guy like me, someone who cares but says were too far...Im a 20 minute drive away from her -_- and she keeps dating a** holes who she tells me, treats her like crap and wont break up with them because she doesn't like to be alone. So after a few times of noticing this I gave up and I don't talk to her anymore.

    All the girls I've met are like that and play games with me and I'm sick of it, I prefer to be alone now than wasting my time.

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  • yeah well maybe instead of going for the cool guys who will obviously ask for sex go for the not to cool people i hat ewhen girls do this they complain about this type of thing when they are the ones fucking only giving the twaty people who only want sex a chance

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    • im with you, girls are attracted to jerks end of story!

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  • I used to be like that, then I realized most girls aren't worth the wait. Sorry

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  • Why do you want that? As if sex was bad or harmful or something? Just find a guy you're attracted to and enjoy sex with him.

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  • Its normal to want him but I swear that i never met a guy that doesnt want it o_o...

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  • Iam a guy, I don't masterbate and I don't like people who are all ways thinking they need to get there rocks off when there genitals look like smegma! You can have fun with you partner without freakin off on them.

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  • Ha!! Good luck finding that the only guy that's out there that don't wanna bang chicks are queers get one of those

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  • i understand that's u want to love the guy before u move on to the next stage?

    i believe u have the right because must of the guys don't take it very seriose and want his cake in the first day which is wrong because if u don't have good felling with the person u r with u won't like to be with them anymore because u can not see her as the must beautiful girl in the world and that's true because u haven't know her very well or maybe she didn't know u very well and she may not enjoy anything with u but if u will be patient and speend more time with her by going out for fun for shopping just to know each other more otherwise she will never trust u to give her self to u because there is a lot of mad ppl and they have two faces and they will change soons they will take their things and i hate to say that but this is the truth and i dont blame any girl doing that because she want to scure her self before beeing in any problems and i believe if ppl take it more serios it will be better in if u will wait for a week or two to have ur first night it's gonna be somthing else something u will never forget n because u waited all this time she will be treating u nice so other says said to make sweet u will need low fire and leave it for longer time for better test so think about it and don't be self fish because girls hate that and u could make her love u or hate u it's all in ur hands.

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  • Yeah - you're cool. What's your Beef?

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  • ¿? try type that if you can youl find some one! ~understander

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  • Shoot! posted in the wrong story. Sorry about that.

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  • I hate people who do that in normal conversations. But sometimes, in written literature, it can be fun to read.

    As an aside, I suggest you read Lewis Carroll's "Through the looking glass."
    Twas brillig...

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  • I want a guy like that too, they are hard to find

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