Wow, you sound just like my fiance "Loverofbunnies" (http://isitnormal.com/people/loverofbunnies/ - for her profile)
I am her first "everything" and before me, nobody even paid any attention to her, like you stated about you. Well, I spent time with her to get to know her and I truly bring joy to her day.
Well, after two years and me quitting a well paying job but shitty toward me to go to school and now with me becoming a tax preparer, she wants to get pregnant. I think deep down she has the same feeling as you do about having something love YOU back and I understand. I used to be extremely overweight and I know how it feels to be unwanted. (I'm not calling you fat, I'm just stating I understand.)
I think the thing is that I believe you need to be happy with yourself first. You need to be more open as guys tend to not ask just any girl out out of a fear of "rejection" and those they do, tend to be more physically pretty than inner-pretty.
However, you should get out and meet people and do not be afraid to ask a guy out. We are just as afraid of rejection as women are and are often afraid to ask out of fear of the stupid "games" people play with this. As you sound, more or less in your own words, not toward the "top end" of the attraction scale, people will not usually pay attention to you so like a used car, you are going to have to advertise yourself some.
Also, don't go after the same ten guys that all the women around you drool over, go with the guy that is great inside but nobody pays attention to because he isn't an "athlete" or "whatever." For instance, I am marrying my best friend, not the hottest girl I could have been with.
here's the thing. i have met guys who i thought i had a chance with, but when i bring up the topic, they say that their not looking for a relationship, which breaks my heart. and i have tried to ask them out and i keep getting rejected. it makes me feel like i cant do anything because of what they say.
is it normal that i want a baby right now?
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Wow, you sound just like my fiance "Loverofbunnies" (http://isitnormal.com/people/loverofbunnies/ - for her profile)
I am her first "everything" and before me, nobody even paid any attention to her, like you stated about you. Well, I spent time with her to get to know her and I truly bring joy to her day.
Well, after two years and me quitting a well paying job but shitty toward me to go to school and now with me becoming a tax preparer, she wants to get pregnant. I think deep down she has the same feeling as you do about having something love YOU back and I understand. I used to be extremely overweight and I know how it feels to be unwanted. (I'm not calling you fat, I'm just stating I understand.)
I think the thing is that I believe you need to be happy with yourself first. You need to be more open as guys tend to not ask just any girl out out of a fear of "rejection" and those they do, tend to be more physically pretty than inner-pretty.
However, you should get out and meet people and do not be afraid to ask a guy out. We are just as afraid of rejection as women are and are often afraid to ask out of fear of the stupid "games" people play with this. As you sound, more or less in your own words, not toward the "top end" of the attraction scale, people will not usually pay attention to you so like a used car, you are going to have to advertise yourself some.
Also, don't go after the same ten guys that all the women around you drool over, go with the guy that is great inside but nobody pays attention to because he isn't an "athlete" or "whatever." For instance, I am marrying my best friend, not the hottest girl I could have been with.
And I am truly happy with this decision.
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here's the thing. i have met guys who i thought i had a chance with, but when i bring up the topic, they say that their not looking for a relationship, which breaks my heart. and i have tried to ask them out and i keep getting rejected. it makes me feel like i cant do anything because of what they say.