Is it normal that i wanna tell her?

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I just came to college and made really good friends with this guy. For the first two months of school he made me feel really comfortable and trusting. From the moment I met him he told me that I was safe around him because he had a girlfriend with whom he loved. One night I got drunk and he told me I could sleep in his bed and it would be strictly non-sexual that he just liked to cuddle. Well it turned sexual and we kept doing it everytime I got drunk and slept in the same small bed for weeks.
Then he got arrested at my dorms for trying to steal from someone and all my friends realized that he had indeed stolen from us before and was a drug addict and a total con-artist that no one likes. He's getting kicked out of school cause he's about to be a convicted felon and I want to tell his girlfriend what happened. Am I a bad person because I feel really guilty and used and want to betray someone I thought was one of my best friends? Should I tell her?

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago | pl

    you're a fukn idiot women like you give bad rep. he prob doesn't even have a gf

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Tell her. Also, you are a faggot.

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago | pl

    k i see it now. yes PLEASE tell her. say ANYTHING. please.

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  • Juanita023
    13 years ago | pl

    You can still catch certain STD's, even if a condom was used. Just putting that out there....

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago | pl

    fess up. you made her bed to lie in it..

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    Also....get tested.

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    • tank711
      13 years ago | pl

      I get tested and go to the obgyn regularly. I also use comdoms no matter how drunk I am because I don't want children. Thanks for the advice but I can take care of my body. I keep my self fresh.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    Personally, I think she's got enough on her mind. I mean, he's a liar, a thief, a drug addict. What more does she need to know? Chances are, if she's still with a guy like him after all that, she will be angrier with you than with him. I don't blame you for feeling used, but at the same time, you knew he had a girlfriend and you continued to sleep with him. Drunk or not, you knew it was wrong and you made the choice to do it.

    Besides, you don't seem to want to tell her for the right reasons. Not because you are guilty of the way you disrespected her. You just want to get back at him by using her and that's just bitchy, especially considering what you've already done to disrespect her.

    You were both in the wrong. Granted, he sounds like a terrible person and I'm sure you aren't. But just move on and let it go. It's not your problem anymore.

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