If you feel that strongly about it, then yes, you'll have to dump her, because there's no way you're going to make the relationship work when you're dying to get out of it. You just need to understand that she is probably going to be devastated and that she's not wrong for that. It will, justifiably, be hard for her to understand why, if you love her, you're dying to get out of the relationship, because after one and a half years she most likely loves you a lot and can't understand why you would want to suddenly leave her now. Emphasize to her that it is not her fault (because it isn't); you just feel like you need to start another chapter of your life. Make sure she knows that you're not doing this out of spite or because you're just sick of her and would rather be with anyone else. It will be excruciatingly hard, but it is your life, and you have to make the decision that is best for you. If you're going to leave her, let her off gently, but do it soon and make the separation final. Don't dangle your new life in front of her face and don't give the impression that you're just happy that she's gone. That way, neither of you will be filled with anger after the breakup and both of you will find it easier to move on.
I wish the best luck to the both of you.
IIN that I wanna dump the girl I love because I'm happier single?
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If you feel that strongly about it, then yes, you'll have to dump her, because there's no way you're going to make the relationship work when you're dying to get out of it. You just need to understand that she is probably going to be devastated and that she's not wrong for that. It will, justifiably, be hard for her to understand why, if you love her, you're dying to get out of the relationship, because after one and a half years she most likely loves you a lot and can't understand why you would want to suddenly leave her now. Emphasize to her that it is not her fault (because it isn't); you just feel like you need to start another chapter of your life. Make sure she knows that you're not doing this out of spite or because you're just sick of her and would rather be with anyone else. It will be excruciatingly hard, but it is your life, and you have to make the decision that is best for you. If you're going to leave her, let her off gently, but do it soon and make the separation final. Don't dangle your new life in front of her face and don't give the impression that you're just happy that she's gone. That way, neither of you will be filled with anger after the breakup and both of you will find it easier to move on.
I wish the best luck to the both of you.