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Lose my virginity to another virgin? My current boyfriend has had sex a few times and it just completely puts me off from wanting him sexually. I love him and everything but I guess I'm too worried about making an idiot of myself to have sex with him, is this normal?
i think its normal. my bf and i were each others first and its created a special bond. I know that sounds really corny but we just love the fact that no one has explored each other except for us. its like having something sacred and secret only you two know .
It's completely normal to want someone who doesn't have experience either. I made an utter fool of myself the first time I had sex (not going to tell you what I did - it's too embarrassing). What I will say is that if anyone is going to mess up, it's liable to be the male. Try not to worry.
It's totally normal. It sometimes turns people off to think that the one they love has slept with someone else before. It comforts you to know that you first has had his first with you.
Not only is it normal, but it's smart. Both finding out what you like sexually, what do to sexually, and not having to worry about STDs or anything... A clean slate experience, if you will. However, it could also pay to tell your boyfriend what you're feeling, and he may even be into it in terms of showing you new things, and helping to find out what you're into. Ultimately, it's up to you, but it's NORMAL.
The fact that you're that turned off by it seems unhealthy. But hey, it's easier to lower your standards than it is to raise them, so don't feel too bad about it. Just don't break up over it if he's a good guy.
If you do it with a virgin like you trust me that's goin to be a mess and you both would probably hate sex after that. I recommend you to do it with your boyfriend who has experience on it or do it with somebody else but make sure is someone with experience.
The guy I wana lose mine to, gas had sex before, and idk, I don't like that cuz his ex was a whore and had 7 guys within a month, so he could have somethig from her
oh! I forgot to say....maybe it would be best if you read up on the subject before you do anything, whether with a virgin or not. It will make the first time more enjoyable. And good luck finding a male virgin:)
my first time was so embarrassing (I'm a girl), it hurt so bad that I thought he was in my pee hole and I ask him that too....."are you sure your in the right hole"? If that wasn't bad enough, when he pulled out (to come) he was between the sheets and my butt and I said, "oh, did you know your not even in me now?" I had no idea what he was doing and especially what I was doing.
i was a virgin and hoped for a virgin...got married to a man that lied to me that claimed he was a virgin to later find out he had sex plenty of times before, i never saw him the same...i didnt feel like i was valued and the time i spent to give it to someone special was treasured because i wanted the same thing gift back...its not wrong to feel the way you do...i dont blame you...besides nothing is promised, safe yourself for someone you feel comfortable with because i lost it in marriage and now divorced to him...full of regrets at the end...losing it to a bf will be more regretful if not thought through enough
i havnt had sex yet but i would like to have sex with someone who is a virgin 2 beacuse u know what so dam pretty said :) and yes u r pritty so dam pritty :)