Ok, so this is my opinion.
Ill tell you a bit about myself, due to the fact that I'm having the same issue.
Im a 20 year old female and I've noticed that I dont exactly get horny very often either. Like you, Ive delt with the whole lesbian/bi sexual issue and found soon after that the female vagina is just NOT attractive to me what so ever. BUT, I have found that I am attracted to the female curves, breasts, face and voice. I love men though as well. So it's nothing abnormal about this situation. Back on track, I find that I can masterbate to almost anything. I literally lay down and start rubbing myself. No need for any kind of images. Ive masturbated while watching t.v, on a phone call, driving. Haha, yaaaa.. but point being is that I was never actually horny, maybe just bored. Also like you stated, it lasts just a few seconds on climax, then as soon as that short plessure has ended you feel as if you want nothing to do with sex. Sometimes I'll finish and then be bored of it, sickened by it.
I've grown up dating guys and have only had sex 4 times. 2 times with 2 guys. It was an okay expirience. So like you I'm struggling to understand myself.. but there are people out there like you. My friends are completely opposite and are horny ALL the damn time. So I know how you're feeling.
So bottum line, Im not sure its really that big of an issue. Butttt, I think maybe you just havent found that one thing or one person that turns you on. Its almost like an addiction, for example; drinking... I can live without it, I drink rarely, but it does nothing for me. As for my friends they drink everynight til their brain is mush because it brings them great satisfaction. Its just another characteristic that everyone differs in.
Hope that helped! If you need someone to chat with just reply!
Is it normal that I very rarely get horny?
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Ok, so this is my opinion.
Ill tell you a bit about myself, due to the fact that I'm having the same issue.
Im a 20 year old female and I've noticed that I dont exactly get horny very often either. Like you, Ive delt with the whole lesbian/bi sexual issue and found soon after that the female vagina is just NOT attractive to me what so ever. BUT, I have found that I am attracted to the female curves, breasts, face and voice. I love men though as well. So it's nothing abnormal about this situation. Back on track, I find that I can masterbate to almost anything. I literally lay down and start rubbing myself. No need for any kind of images. Ive masturbated while watching t.v, on a phone call, driving. Haha, yaaaa.. but point being is that I was never actually horny, maybe just bored. Also like you stated, it lasts just a few seconds on climax, then as soon as that short plessure has ended you feel as if you want nothing to do with sex. Sometimes I'll finish and then be bored of it, sickened by it.
I've grown up dating guys and have only had sex 4 times. 2 times with 2 guys. It was an okay expirience. So like you I'm struggling to understand myself.. but there are people out there like you. My friends are completely opposite and are horny ALL the damn time. So I know how you're feeling.
So bottum line, Im not sure its really that big of an issue. Butttt, I think maybe you just havent found that one thing or one person that turns you on. Its almost like an addiction, for example; drinking... I can live without it, I drink rarely, but it does nothing for me. As for my friends they drink everynight til their brain is mush because it brings them great satisfaction. Its just another characteristic that everyone differs in.
Hope that helped! If you need someone to chat with just reply!