Is it normal that i've started to be and behave like my mom?

I don't know how to begin the story but I think I'll put a brief about myself. I am 18 years old, a girl and the youngest in my family.

Lately, I think I'm starting to behave like my mom. I don't hate her but sometimes I just don't approve her act or thoughts or something. I always had fights with her even if it's just a simple thing. My mom is quite conservative, and sometimes emotional as well. She always thinks that she does something better than other people and always criticize other people including my best friend(I know my mom is some successful woman and she has been through a lot since she was small). Usually she would criticize my best friend saying that she is not well-mannered enough or her parents are not conservative enough. She always wants me to find some good friends and polite and great at academics and everything.

I mean I know my best friend's parents are not as conservative as my parents are, but I know that they are good people too. It's just that sometimes my parents do not approve what they do and they will criticize what they do. I mean is it normal because I am trying to avoid being that type of people where they would criticize other people but the harder I try, the more I'm becoming like them and I hate that fact so much.Is it normal to be like that? Does anybody else has the same problem as mine?

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  • My mom ask me if I want to fuck I said ya I poot my dick in her she said yes back in mommy I love u mommy

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  • When I was a teenager I promised myself never to be like mom who likes to take decisions etc.. Now that i'm living with my bf i find that i'm beginning to be more and more like her. She's my mom after all

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  • Maybe it's just being around your parents because I try not to do anything that my father does but sometimes I'll catch myself doing things like he does.

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  • I wish that i was more like my dad. Once i saw his dick in the shower and it was FUCKIN HUGE. Mine is normal but FUCKING SHIT it was large. Its like a tall fat guy's arm holding a huge apple.

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  • All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his. - Oscar Wilde.

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  • people say i look alot like my mum exept shes blonde and im brown, and that i stand the same way as her and talk the same, and i dont want to! lol she annoys me alot even tho most of the time i like her but i dont really wana be like my mum i just wana be like me :)

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  • Wow..I see..that made me a lot relieved.But I really hate that fact seriously.I'm trying very hard to avoid being like them by accepting more people in my life disregarding their background.I managed to do that but somehow my best friend became my victim.I know it may sounds a bit cruel but sometimes I just criticize her.Pity her...I guess my mom is pressuring me as well.Hmm...

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  • At least you're aware of it. If that's not who you want to be, you can stop becoming it.

    I've noticed that I've picked up a few mannerisms from my mum too. Minor things. It's funny, because I'm a very different person really.

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  • we all end up being like our parents in some ways.

    even though we vow never to be like them (the traits we don't like), next thing we know, there we are, being just like them.

    i think it's common and you are normal.

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