Is it normal that i've never kissed anyone accept when acting?

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OK, I have a kind of strange story. I've never been in a relationship, kissed anyone (since kindergarden) or had any kind of sexual intimacy with a romantic partner. The exception is on stage and in films. I am an actor and I've kissed dozens of people when performing. However, I never feel anything. I know everyone is being really professional when acting, but I'm just wondering how normal that is? I mean, I feel the desire to be touched by people I'm attracted to, but it doesn't seem to translate through the lips. I'm wondering if because my first kisses have all been as a performance and I wasn't attracted to my partner if the whole concept of kissing is just screwed up in my head. Any thoughts?

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago | pl

    You know those are fake kisses

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago | pl

    Atleast you know youll have practice when you have the real one XD .

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  • Dom67
    11 years ago | pl

    It's funny I read your post tonight, because also tonight I was listening to a talk radio show about A-Sexuals or whatever they are called: people that do not desire affection or sex. They have no desire to cuddle with or to be cuddled by another human being. They aren't horny for others. The talk show didn't mention anything about masturabation so I'm not sure how or if these people practice masturabation. It was an interesting show. As soon as I read your post, I thought of the talk show and thought that you could be one of those kinds of people they were discussing, but when you mentioned this: "I mean, I feel the desire to be touched by people I'm attracted to, but it doesn't seem to translate through the lips.", that was my sign that you are NOT an A-Sexual person. I tend to have to agree with lovely55. You just haven't found the right person. Plain and simple, some people just don't like kissing! There's nothing wrong with that. Or, you may have just not kissed the right person, or the people you have kissed didn't know how to kiss properly. When it's someone that you are totaly into, and they are totaly into you, you will feel it. It's a strong vibration between the two of you, that you just can't ignore. Whether you are hetero or homo or whatever, you will know when it's right because you will enjoy it so much and just want more! Try not to compare your work with your true and genuine feelings that you will one day feel for someone. Good luck. Don't rip yourself off of this wonderful experience.

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  • lovely55
    12 years ago | pl

    Its because the girls you have kissed you are no interested in. A kiss is something much more than sexual, it should be special. You haven't found the right person yet.

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  • TheJackel
    12 years ago | pl

    Wow ur analysis is more feasible than anyone i could think of. Just let me tell u ur not missing out on much.

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  • DannyKanes
    12 years ago | pl

    ^ win

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  • woody1968
    12 years ago | pl

    Is that you Hugh grant?

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