I've never been able to do it either!!! It is frustrating because everyone always talks about this great orgasm thing and I have yet to experience one. But last night my bf made it his mission to make me orgasm and was able to accomplish some awesomeness. Perhaps it would work for you?
There was about twenty minutes of foreplay; massages, nipple play, biting. Then there was about an hour of hard core fingering. He got into a comfortable position and just got after it. After a while I felt really "close" is how others would describe it, and my lower abdomen got really tense, and my, it felt very, very good. I may have had half of one? haha. I got cold sweats, tense, and an extremely high feeling. Then he switched all of the sudden. He basically trapped me underneath him, held me there, and went after my clit. Mindblowing. Then of course there was the actual normal sex which felt good, but not climaxing good. Perhaps it would work for you, if you tweak it how you like it?
I know those arnt really sexual (penis/vagina) techniques though. The best position I have found is have him standing off the bed, facing it, with my butt on the edge of the bed and my legs on his shoulders. It is really intense for me, and after a while I feel ready to explode.
I don't mean to make this sound like a dirty romance novel, but I hope it helps. I am in the same no orgasm boat, but this got me pretty damn close and maybe it can help you! Good luck.
Is it normal that I've never had a orgasm?
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I've never been able to do it either!!! It is frustrating because everyone always talks about this great orgasm thing and I have yet to experience one. But last night my bf made it his mission to make me orgasm and was able to accomplish some awesomeness. Perhaps it would work for you?
There was about twenty minutes of foreplay; massages, nipple play, biting. Then there was about an hour of hard core fingering. He got into a comfortable position and just got after it. After a while I felt really "close" is how others would describe it, and my lower abdomen got really tense, and my, it felt very, very good. I may have had half of one? haha. I got cold sweats, tense, and an extremely high feeling. Then he switched all of the sudden. He basically trapped me underneath him, held me there, and went after my clit. Mindblowing. Then of course there was the actual normal sex which felt good, but not climaxing good. Perhaps it would work for you, if you tweak it how you like it?
I know those arnt really sexual (penis/vagina) techniques though. The best position I have found is have him standing off the bed, facing it, with my butt on the edge of the bed and my legs on his shoulders. It is really intense for me, and after a while I feel ready to explode.
I don't mean to make this sound like a dirty romance novel, but I hope it helps. I am in the same no orgasm boat, but this got me pretty damn close and maybe it can help you! Good luck.