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I love having sex with my boyfriend but I've never been able to finish, not with just him but with everyone I've been with. I don't know what's wrong with me it's not like I don't enjoy it because it is easily the best sex I've had. What do I do? is there something wrong with me?
Some girls need clit stimulation and can only finish that way.I say its normal.I hope Yall have open communication about this.if you do it helps.be honest and don't be afraid to explore sex toys .
Guys don't want to know that they're not fully satisfying their partner. Some can take the truth, but most don't get the "the sex is still great without orgasm" part. If the sex is great there is probably not much her boyfriend can do to satisfy her further, aside from more clitoral stimulation which can be discussed without bringing up the big O issue.
Practice on yourself first and finger out what you like best.
Personally I can only get off if there's been some serious foreplay, and I'm close to orgasm, then ill climax during sex.
If your boyfriend wasn't such a queer you would be alright. Dump the cocksucker and get a real man.
It's very normal. 2 things. A. Learn what YOU need to finish. (IE) Take care of yourself and figure out really does it for you. Then in corporate that into your sex life. Bring a toy into the room...I mean talk about it first, but its not him....it's you and your body. He'll probably be cool with it.
2. Foreplay, foreplay foreplay.
I've never been able to do it either!!! It is frustrating because everyone always talks about this great orgasm thing and I have yet to experience one. But last night my bf made it his mission to make me orgasm and was able to accomplish some awesomeness. Perhaps it would work for you?
There was about twenty minutes of foreplay; massages, nipple play, biting. Then there was about an hour of hard core fingering. He got into a comfortable position and just got after it. After a while I felt really "close" is how others would describe it, and my lower abdomen got really tense, and my, it felt very, very good. I may have had half of one? haha. I got cold sweats, tense, and an extremely high feeling. Then he switched all of the sudden. He basically trapped me underneath him, held me there, and went after my clit. Mindblowing. Then of course there was the actual normal sex which felt good, but not climaxing good. Perhaps it would work for you, if you tweak it how you like it?
I know those arnt really sexual (penis/vagina) techniques though. The best position I have found is have him standing off the bed, facing it, with my butt on the edge of the bed and my legs on his shoulders. It is really intense for me, and after a while I feel ready to explode.
I don't mean to make this sound like a dirty romance novel, but I hope it helps. I am in the same no orgasm boat, but this got me pretty damn close and maybe it can help you! Good luck.
you guys can figure this out if you're in love and want to please each other. Try oral sex, a vibrator, so you'll have a few orgasms, and that will help you get there as a team <3. This is a fun problem actually. Don't take it too seriously, because it's 100% 'fixable'.
I don't let my partner get left behind. I don't finish until she does. Have him try new things, be creative, I'm sure there is video instructions out there or loads of information all over the internet you can research. Does he orally stimulate you. As long as she is clean down there it is my absolute favorite thing to do. I get more satisfaction from my partner getting off than I desire for myself. Guess I'm just wired that way when it comes to sex. Good luck and keep an open mind :-)
Try to exercise more, dance more and relax. You're probably thinking about it too much.