Contrary to what men believe and what young women may perceive, most women do not perform head for guys that they do not have a LTR with.
A) You do not have to do it and by not doing it you will be amongst the overwhelming majority of women. They have found out that they don't like doing it or only do it rarely for the significant other or who are totally grossed out by the thought of doing it.
B) You barely know this guy as anything other than, 1) a guy who sounds like he is either looking to put a notch in his belt, 2) brag to his friends that you gave him head, 3) hoping he can finally convince a girl to give him head for the first time, because all his friends are bragging/lying about how much head they get or he really just wants you to be his slutty FWB.
C) If you are even willing to consider discussing the possibility with him; he should understand that you are not going to do it, unless he is wearing a condom. Any illusions he may harbor of you doing a porn scene blow job are not happening. No cumming in your mouth, no swallowing, no taking it in the face.
D) If you do decide to give it a go and give him a blow job, he needs to agree that you are in charge, you can stop whenever you choose, you will not be deep throating, he cannot face fuck you, no hands on your head and that you will have a girlfriend in the other room just in case things get out of hand.
Real couples, who get experimental in their sex play negotiate the rules all the time. If he becomes whiney and thinks you are being a fucking pain, then this guy is a total loser.
Is it normal that I've never given head?
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Contrary to what men believe and what young women may perceive, most women do not perform head for guys that they do not have a LTR with.
A) You do not have to do it and by not doing it you will be amongst the overwhelming majority of women. They have found out that they don't like doing it or only do it rarely for the significant other or who are totally grossed out by the thought of doing it.
B) You barely know this guy as anything other than, 1) a guy who sounds like he is either looking to put a notch in his belt, 2) brag to his friends that you gave him head, 3) hoping he can finally convince a girl to give him head for the first time, because all his friends are bragging/lying about how much head they get or he really just wants you to be his slutty FWB.
C) If you are even willing to consider discussing the possibility with him; he should understand that you are not going to do it, unless he is wearing a condom. Any illusions he may harbor of you doing a porn scene blow job are not happening. No cumming in your mouth, no swallowing, no taking it in the face.
D) If you do decide to give it a go and give him a blow job, he needs to agree that you are in charge, you can stop whenever you choose, you will not be deep throating, he cannot face fuck you, no hands on your head and that you will have a girlfriend in the other room just in case things get out of hand.
Real couples, who get experimental in their sex play negotiate the rules all the time. If he becomes whiney and thinks you are being a fucking pain, then this guy is a total loser.