Is it normal that i've never been asked out by a guy?

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I'm 20 years old and I've never been asked out. Guys just don't really seem to pay any attention to me. I'm not specifically interested in a certain person right now but I really want to be. I know I'm not ugly, but I'm not super hot either. Probably just average. I had a boyfriend in like 9th grade but looking back it wasn't even serious & we never even went on a date!

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Based on 22 votes (19 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago | pl

    Take initiative. If you're wanting to be with someone then ask them.

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  • JohnMcBain1967
    6 years ago

    When I was 20 years old I was a virgin and never even dated anyone, then a year later I met an incredible girl lost my virginity and started dating regularly. It's just a matter of meeting the right person, you're only 20 years old so give it time

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  • Padfoot09
    6 years ago

    Just because you have never been asked out doesn't mean anything about the way you look. Don't get self conscious. You are beautiful just the way you are. If you like a guy though, you can ask him out.

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    • JonathanOo
      6 years ago

      I agree. I'm the same age as well as others I know. We have never been asked out, although people we know have dated countless times

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    A lot of it is your body language, if you seem closed off most guys will assume you're not interested and leave you alone.

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  • C-hoss00
    6 years ago

    Once you find that "right guy" he'll love you for who you are and not what you look like. don't ever settle for less. never ever. that "Mr. Perfect" hasn't made his way around yet, but I guarantee you, soon he'll arrive and he'll treat you like a queen, which is how all women should be treated and vice versa. since you're a virgin too, make sure the guy you're with wants you for you and not just a "side piece" that's where a lot of women mess up then get discouraged. I know several people that's in the boat you're in and there's nothing wrong with it. it's better to find the right one than to find someone that uses you and breaks your heart a numerous amount of times..

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Focus on loving yourself and improving yourself and a good guy will come.

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  • EccentricWeird
    6 years ago

    If you're ugly, yes. If you're not ugly, no.

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  • Sudofato
    6 years ago

    This is normal everywhere. There are so many reason for this to happen. It is normal for anyone to ask anyone out, so just waiting for someone isn't the only option. Knowing that, I also understand how great of a feeling it is when someone does notice you and take the time/effort to get your attention.

    One reason a girl/woman (which ever you prefer to be called) doesn't get asked out or 'hit-on' in social situations is due to their look and/or body language. I'm not saying that a person should change their look or act differently, but a person should choose the right location for their look and/or personality, or at least for the type of person they are trying to attract. For instance, dressing in overalls and a straw hat in a sports bar will not get you the attention you are looking for. Looking at the floor, or your drink more than anything else while keeping your shoulders squeezed close to your body while in a dance club wont get what you want.

    Again, either choose the right location, or choose the type of guy you want and go to the right location and act the way one would normally act in that location.

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