Is it normal that i've had no physical experience with a person?

I'm a male in my early 20s and not only have I never had sex, I've never even kissed anyone. That's not to say the interest isn't there. Is this normal?

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67% Normal
Based on 288 votes (192 yes)
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  • Dazzie

    Yes it's normal. I don't understand what's everyone's rush to have sex and all. It's not a big deal. Your time will come and it'll be great.

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  • Juniper

    You sound awesome. I'd be honored to be a guy's first kiss...

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    • Thanks! To be honest, I've always thought that girls don't like being guys' first kiss.

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      • Juniper

        np! :) Wish I'd been so lucky!

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    • ComTlancy

      Really? You would?

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      • Juniper

        Yes!! It's something I'd cherish always.

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        • ComTlancy

          Well i guess I have nothing to worry about after all.

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  • bookmaniac

    Unusual in these days, but NORMAL. when you want it, get it. Until then, just use your hand. I got married at 27, never had sex before that...and nearly 15 years later, we have sex all the time. 4-5 times a week, which is way more than the average. I think part of it is that I really dig my wife, we both waited for our wedding night, and we are both SUPER sexually charged. If she's sleeping and i'm horny, i just pull down the covers and nuzzle up 69 style and make her night while she makes mine. Once you find the one...never say "no", always explore, and remember...there's more to life than sex.

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  • deluna

    Lucky you.
    You have no idea how many women would like to date you if they knew that

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  • Coco327

    You're still young, but if I could give you a piece of advice, go to a bar and/or club, have a couple of drinks and get your make out on!!! You're going to need practice. You wouldn't want to meet an amazing girl and have a horrible first kiss.

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  • theytookthisone

    Well its not normal if the only experience you have is NOT with a person, if ya know what I mean o.o

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  • equanimity

    It's nothing to worry about, you're still young.

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  • SoccerStud88

    these physical experiences tend to come all at once. Once you kiss a girl she's also willing to go even farther, so don't get yourself too down OP.

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    • Thanks bud

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  • mrkrule

    That's not too bad. Don't feel like you have to rush.

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  • Mando

    Yes you have passed, as you undoubtedly know, the typical (on average) teen milestones for becoming sexually active, but so what? That is not the issue at all. The issue is why you haven't translated your interest into action. If you don't know, or..

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    Get a life u asshole.....!

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  • DavidS.

    How did your family express affection for one another..many people that came from families that were cold and distant ..with very little in the way of physical affection have trouble expressing it..and ironically usually end up as sex addicts in order to get the physical affection they craved as a child.

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  • Coco327

    Btw the reason why I say this is because I saw this show on TLC about virgins getting married and one of the guys had never kissed a girl before and their first kiss was at the alter. It was horrible!!!!! The bride's family could barely watch. Take your time losing your virginity but at least learn how to kiss.

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  • steven_mw

    I'm 20 and the biggest achievement was ... some instant kisses.Nothing more.So yes, it's normal.I'm praying for luck, but the universe doesn't allow me to.

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  • scapetown.VA

    Its not freakish. But its weird

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