Is it normal that i've fallen in love with my teacher?

This is going to sound incredibly stereotypical and cliched, but please listen. I think I've fallen in love with my teacher. He's more than twenty years older than I am, and I understand fully that there can never be a relationship between us and that I can never pursue him or act on the feelings I have. However, these feelings that I do have are overwhelming my life. He's one of the most intelligent, compassionate, funny, and generally amazing people I've ever felt in my life. It began with a purely emotionally based attraction that's since branched off into a physical attraction as well (I'm a personality person, and generally not physically attracted to people on first sight). It's a joy to watch the way he does things, from undoing his tie to the serious tone in his voice when he tells us something important or intelligent. I've never felt this intense about any other person before. Are these feelings for my teacher normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • This is really common, it just shows how much women tend to prefer intelligent, educated, mature men.
    You may or may not be attracted to him, it might instead be his image and lifestyle. Either way, definitely normal.

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  • you have daddy issues

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  • What!!!! that is creepy leave him alone or you will look like a phsyco and end up crying out on the curb at your school dance

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  • Your gonna get him fired if you try anything.

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  • you sound just like me,i think its a fairly common thing.....but it makes me feel so hopeless.

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  • I no exactly how you feel hunni. i fell in love with my math teacher last year when i started high school. i would stear at him in class, having daydreams about him taking my clothes off and i would get so wet and excited. yes its normal, and if you want to start a relationship with him i think you should go for it. talk to him and tell him how you feel. i recently started having a relationship with my math teacher and its amazing. i get so horny in his class now, and stay behind when everyone leaves and we have sex on his desk or in the store room. its amazing, iv never been so happy :) . if you want him then do whatever it takes to be with him hunni

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  • Normal :)

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  • Pretty little liars

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  • Cool kinda

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  • I had the same thing, but I've left school now, :'( watching him teach made my week.

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  • I have the same problem and I know exactly how you feel!

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  • I know exactly how u feel! i have a government teacher and i never thought he was hot or anything until i had him as a teacher. his intelligence is extremely sexy to me, when he lectures I'm like over there tryin to not get my panties wet hahah seriously though! lol

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