While that is semi-common with women that have this desire, it's not always the case, sometimes they just want to have a lover that knows where all the controls are. Some older guys aren't any better at getting a woman off when they're in their 30's, 40's, or 50's than they were when they were 20.
I think a better question would be: Does her bf satisfy her sexually? If you can masturbate yourself to a better orgasm than you can get with your partner, you're probably with the wrong person, at least sexually speaking. It's also very difficult to get guys to improve their technique because their ego gets in the way.
Everything was well said ,but one thing I need to correct, not all guys have egos,bit the sexual partners don't communicate what they like with each other, we need to be open at saying the things they do very well and say the things that don't feel right,just be open with one another, one thing I make a rule (I am a guy) I don't cum till she is satisfied, so I will eat her pussy till she Beggs me to cum up and fuck her
Sure, not all guys, but most, and especially the younger ones. I agree that if you're plan is to stay with a person for the duration of your life you should be completely honest. Then, if there's an incompatibility you can either work around it, or end the relationship and begin the search anew. But if you're not decided on trying to stay with them forever, and I would highly discourage anyone in their 20's to stay with the first person they have ever had sex with, unless you know you've got exactly what you want, and how can one know that if you haven't tried the other things that are out there?
Sophisticated people, with a lot of sexual experience can often not have their relationships withstand such wants/needs as the OP has stated. It's not every couple that can even handle the idea of threesomes, and many that think they can find out in retrospect that it was a bad idea for them. Being so young and inexperienced, I honestly think she should either cut the current bf loose (if that's a moral imperative), or just go try out her fantasy without him knowing. She said it's a bucket list item, so it pretty much has to be done, one way or another.
Is it normal that I've always wanted to do it with an older man?
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While that is semi-common with women that have this desire, it's not always the case, sometimes they just want to have a lover that knows where all the controls are. Some older guys aren't any better at getting a woman off when they're in their 30's, 40's, or 50's than they were when they were 20.
I think a better question would be: Does her bf satisfy her sexually? If you can masturbate yourself to a better orgasm than you can get with your partner, you're probably with the wrong person, at least sexually speaking. It's also very difficult to get guys to improve their technique because their ego gets in the way.
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Everything was well said ,but one thing I need to correct, not all guys have egos,bit the sexual partners don't communicate what they like with each other, we need to be open at saying the things they do very well and say the things that don't feel right,just be open with one another, one thing I make a rule (I am a guy) I don't cum till she is satisfied, so I will eat her pussy till she Beggs me to cum up and fuck her
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Sure, not all guys, but most, and especially the younger ones. I agree that if you're plan is to stay with a person for the duration of your life you should be completely honest. Then, if there's an incompatibility you can either work around it, or end the relationship and begin the search anew. But if you're not decided on trying to stay with them forever, and I would highly discourage anyone in their 20's to stay with the first person they have ever had sex with, unless you know you've got exactly what you want, and how can one know that if you haven't tried the other things that are out there?
Sophisticated people, with a lot of sexual experience can often not have their relationships withstand such wants/needs as the OP has stated. It's not every couple that can even handle the idea of threesomes, and many that think they can find out in retrospect that it was a bad idea for them. Being so young and inexperienced, I honestly think she should either cut the current bf loose (if that's a moral imperative), or just go try out her fantasy without him knowing. She said it's a bucket list item, so it pretty much has to be done, one way or another.