Why not? You're not married and if your bf was your first, and you were his you probably have no idea what you're missing out on. Seriously, many younger guys have little to no idea how to pleasure a woman. Now, of course, you could find an older loser (I know guys in their 50's that never learned how to bring a woman to orgasm with their tongue or their cock, it's all about them getting off, I know this from speaking with their wives after I've given them multiple screaming orgasms), but it shouldn't be that difficult to screen out the real bad ones.
If this is a bucket list item, how will you ever achieve it if you never pull the trigger on this fantasy.
Perhaps, but unlikely. Most guys, especially one in their 20's are too insecure to have threesomes with another man involved. Even broaching the subject could be a really bad idea, because if he doesn't want to, and she agrees not to do it, it will always be in the back of his mind.
And in your 20's you're too young to limit yourself to one partner, especially the only one you've ever been with. It would be like trying vanilla ice cream and then never trying another flavor... who would do that?
My boyfriend does fulfill my needs.. Especially sexually. Of course I've only slept with him so what do I know? But he's the same way. He won't cum until I do first & he will do everything to get me right at my climax before he fucks me. & believe me, it's amazing. But an older guy for some reason has always been on my mind. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, that's not even an option. I'm not cheating on him either nor am I going to tell him about my fantasies. I'm just gonna have to wait it out I guess. It's not about me being in my 20's & not sticking to one person, it's about loving someone & not wanting to let them go. I'm 20, I don't know if I will marry my boyfriend, I would definitely not mind but you never know. It's a fantasy waiting to be a reality. ;)
You sound a bit trapped to me, but whatever, you'll either look back in 10-20 years and realize your mistake, or think you did the best thing possible. It's impossible to know which at this point.
You said this very well,I want to encourage you to tell him your fantasy as he shares his,when you're open with them you will see how benificial it is,the more open you are the sex is so much better, even watching porn together, is an awesome way to get things going, let's face it everyone watches it or wants to, just be open and one day he may want to want to see you fill your fantasy, I was married to one that we never sp I keep much of anything and was just sex,now I am married and we are open and find it wonderful how we talk about things openly
Is it normal that I've always wanted to do it with an older man?
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Shouldn't really be that difficult to arrange. Your bf doesn't even need to know. Good luck.
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I could never do that to him.
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Why not? You're not married and if your bf was your first, and you were his you probably have no idea what you're missing out on. Seriously, many younger guys have little to no idea how to pleasure a woman. Now, of course, you could find an older loser (I know guys in their 50's that never learned how to bring a woman to orgasm with their tongue or their cock, it's all about them getting off, I know this from speaking with their wives after I've given them multiple screaming orgasms), but it shouldn't be that difficult to screen out the real bad ones.
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Once she tells him her fantasy he will gain her trust and they have a threesome with an older guy
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Perhaps, but unlikely. Most guys, especially one in their 20's are too insecure to have threesomes with another man involved. Even broaching the subject could be a really bad idea, because if he doesn't want to, and she agrees not to do it, it will always be in the back of his mind.
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My boyfriend does fulfill my needs.. Especially sexually. Of course I've only slept with him so what do I know? But he's the same way. He won't cum until I do first & he will do everything to get me right at my climax before he fucks me. & believe me, it's amazing. But an older guy for some reason has always been on my mind. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, that's not even an option. I'm not cheating on him either nor am I going to tell him about my fantasies. I'm just gonna have to wait it out I guess. It's not about me being in my 20's & not sticking to one person, it's about loving someone & not wanting to let them go. I'm 20, I don't know if I will marry my boyfriend, I would definitely not mind but you never know. It's a fantasy waiting to be a reality. ;)
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You sound a bit trapped to me, but whatever, you'll either look back in 10-20 years and realize your mistake, or think you did the best thing possible. It's impossible to know which at this point.
Also when you share this with BF assure him it's a sexual attraction with older men not emotional
You said this very well,I want to encourage you to tell him your fantasy as he shares his,when you're open with them you will see how benificial it is,the more open you are the sex is so much better, even watching porn together, is an awesome way to get things going, let's face it everyone watches it or wants to, just be open and one day he may want to want to see you fill your fantasy, I was married to one that we never sp I keep much of anything and was just sex,now I am married and we are open and find it wonderful how we talk about things openly