It is normal,
All children seek love from their parents. And as much as some try to deny it its just how we are made period. It's completely normal, he probably doesn't mean to make you hate him, but he just loves you and expects a lot from you is all. I hated my dad too, but he recently died. And I forgot anything bad he did because he is gone, just remember that if he died how would you feel?
You only get one dad sweetheart, so you're stuck with him. Take him as he is. Since he doesn't have the balls to confront you, then you grow some and confront him. The world can end at any moment for no fucking reason! Or you can die for god sakes! Get over yourselves! Sit down and talk, if he doesn't want to talk then make him listen. You might hate him but the love for him will never die. Not to mention 'You Only Live Once.'
IIN that I utterly HATE my father, but secretly seek love from him?
← View full post
It is normal,
All children seek love from their parents. And as much as some try to deny it its just how we are made period. It's completely normal, he probably doesn't mean to make you hate him, but he just loves you and expects a lot from you is all. I hated my dad too, but he recently died. And I forgot anything bad he did because he is gone, just remember that if he died how would you feel?
You only get one dad sweetheart, so you're stuck with him. Take him as he is. Since he doesn't have the balls to confront you, then you grow some and confront him. The world can end at any moment for no fucking reason! Or you can die for god sakes! Get over yourselves! Sit down and talk, if he doesn't want to talk then make him listen. You might hate him but the love for him will never die. Not to mention 'You Only Live Once.'