Asian father too, but I learned when I was young, probably grade 8-9 that adults make mistakes as well. However, any decent parent will want their kids to do well and not walk the same hard path they took. So they will be hard on you. From then on, I used logic and thought to question them and ask them why they think like that, you'd be surprised, ask them like an adult. They will be more open and the discussions are more 'neutral'.
IIN that I utterly HATE my father, but secretly seek love from him?
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Asian father too, but I learned when I was young, probably grade 8-9 that adults make mistakes as well. However, any decent parent will want their kids to do well and not walk the same hard path they took. So they will be hard on you. From then on, I used logic and thought to question them and ask them why they think like that, you'd be surprised, ask them like an adult. They will be more open and the discussions are more 'neutral'.