Yes, in my opinion it is creepy and weird, and also disrespectful of her, but understandable for an insecure teen. I don't think you should keep this up, though. How would you feel if people interested in you used the same approach? You might actually start to have some interest on the person, just to find out they are a different individual who has been lying all the time about who they really are. I don’t think that would be a nice feeling, so I really recommend you to muster up the courage and be yourself. If she is not interested, so be it, there are other girls around, and if somehow one of these girls publicized their experience with your fake accounts, this could really affect your reputation where you live.
I disagree. Much constructive social knowledge can be learned about people by listening to their responses to people in group discussions. By filling the gaps with a couple of well defined alternate personalities, you can confirm this girl's sensitivities to determine if you are comfortable with them in advance. Time well spent to avoid disappointment for both of you if either of you is not a match.
For example, I'm an INTJ. You, my wise owl, seem like an ESTJ. You might not like the way my intuition evaluates the distribution of data that's part of the premise of a well thought syllogism. I'll never know until I have a control type observation to serve as a basis for comparison. So, I have an alt hit you with a "S" comment. Test complete.
Your go. Hit me with your best shot. I'm anticipating good things. :-)
is it normal that i use alias accounts to talk to the girl i like?
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Yes, in my opinion it is creepy and weird, and also disrespectful of her, but understandable for an insecure teen. I don't think you should keep this up, though. How would you feel if people interested in you used the same approach? You might actually start to have some interest on the person, just to find out they are a different individual who has been lying all the time about who they really are. I don’t think that would be a nice feeling, so I really recommend you to muster up the courage and be yourself. If she is not interested, so be it, there are other girls around, and if somehow one of these girls publicized their experience with your fake accounts, this could really affect your reputation where you live.
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I disagree. Much constructive social knowledge can be learned about people by listening to their responses to people in group discussions. By filling the gaps with a couple of well defined alternate personalities, you can confirm this girl's sensitivities to determine if you are comfortable with them in advance. Time well spent to avoid disappointment for both of you if either of you is not a match.
For example, I'm an INTJ. You, my wise owl, seem like an ESTJ. You might not like the way my intuition evaluates the distribution of data that's part of the premise of a well thought syllogism. I'll never know until I have a control type observation to serve as a basis for comparison. So, I have an alt hit you with a "S" comment. Test complete.
Your go. Hit me with your best shot. I'm anticipating good things. :-)