Awkward and gross: yes. But, it's not like you did those worse thing that you pointed out that you didn't do. You were both young, kids really, and you were just getting hormones. Kids sometimes do some things that would be really messed up if they were adults but can be forgiven because they were kids. It doesn't justify it, but it's nothing that need haunt you. You were a little handsy, but in a way that today would get you slapped, not sent to jail forever. The most important thing is that you've learned your lesson. If you relationship with her is still good, it's not something you need to worry about.
Maybe, if you have kids and you see history repeating itself, you can remember this and, instead of exploding or overeacting, you talk to your future son and daughter calmly and explain boundaries and stuff.
Is it normal that I touched my little sister when I was a kid?
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Awkward and gross: yes. But, it's not like you did those worse thing that you pointed out that you didn't do. You were both young, kids really, and you were just getting hormones. Kids sometimes do some things that would be really messed up if they were adults but can be forgiven because they were kids. It doesn't justify it, but it's nothing that need haunt you. You were a little handsy, but in a way that today would get you slapped, not sent to jail forever. The most important thing is that you've learned your lesson. If you relationship with her is still good, it's not something you need to worry about.
Maybe, if you have kids and you see history repeating itself, you can remember this and, instead of exploding or overeacting, you talk to your future son and daughter calmly and explain boundaries and stuff.