I can definitely understand why you're doing it. She's your friend, you're looking out for her. What's your plan, though? Is this a long term solution? If so, then that might be a problem. I don't know what advice I can give you because I've never been in a situation like this. I think it would be a good idea to look for something more stable for her. Do you plan on talking to your grandparents about this?
Well, I told her that I would help her work something out so that she can find a better place to stay whenever she thinks she wants to move on and stay somewhere else. Thing is though is that I refuse to just let her go and stay with anyone - if she's going to go and move in somewhere else, I want to make sure that she's going to the right person to care for her; like I do. I want her to go to someone somewhere who can act like a legitimate parent to her.
I do agree, yes, it probably should tell my grandparents but you see I know that they wouldn't agree with it. They'd come up with some ridiculous excuse and tell me that she has to go and I'd feel horrible knowing she'd have to go so of course I'd defend her and it'd start a huge issue I really don't want to start.
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I can definitely understand why you're doing it. She's your friend, you're looking out for her. What's your plan, though? Is this a long term solution? If so, then that might be a problem. I don't know what advice I can give you because I've never been in a situation like this. I think it would be a good idea to look for something more stable for her. Do you plan on talking to your grandparents about this?
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Well, I told her that I would help her work something out so that she can find a better place to stay whenever she thinks she wants to move on and stay somewhere else. Thing is though is that I refuse to just let her go and stay with anyone - if she's going to go and move in somewhere else, I want to make sure that she's going to the right person to care for her; like I do. I want her to go to someone somewhere who can act like a legitimate parent to her.
I do agree, yes, it probably should tell my grandparents but you see I know that they wouldn't agree with it. They'd come up with some ridiculous excuse and tell me that she has to go and I'd feel horrible knowing she'd have to go so of course I'd defend her and it'd start a huge issue I really don't want to start.
yeah im curious as well, it important you guy hash out a plan