what a fucking choice. Drugs are addictive! Is something not very clear to you? you are drawn to them the same way a bee is to honey! First of all: that way you prove you never really loved the guy. If you did love him you'd want him off drugs and with you. You'd realize he can't get off drugs without help and do something to help him. Instead you used the formula: kick or stay away from me.
Solve all of your troubles first, then..
How is that supposed to be of any help to your relationship? A drug addict life revolves around drugs. Even if he gets help on his own so you do not dump him he would still be struggling with his addiction and with you. So instead of taking one big trouble out of the equation, you'd just add some more there for both.
Isn't love also about being there for your guy to help him and share the bad times as well as the good ones? or it is just about taking the best that's there then just walk out on the guy whenever he starts being a burden? and needing more than he can give?
That's the end of it in case you were wondering.
Sure, but this is something she's had to deal with too. I get being there for your guy, but at some point you need to be there for yourself too, and if she thinks she needs to live her life without these things in it she ABSOLUTELY has a right to make that statement.
Way to emphasize my problem, thanks. Yeah, I really needed you to explain to me that drugs feel super good and its hard to resist them. That clears up the past year of my life! You're awesome!
Of course I don't want to tell him that. But it's hard to be around people using when you're trying to stop. I'm just asking him to try is all.
well im with a pothead and he refuses to get help and when he doesn have weed he treats me like shit on the ground and when i dont give him money for it its even worse! i don't know what to do cause he refuses to get help cause he thinks he doesn't have a problem
Is it normal that I told my boyfriend it's me or the drugs??
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what a fucking choice. Drugs are addictive! Is something not very clear to you? you are drawn to them the same way a bee is to honey! First of all: that way you prove you never really loved the guy. If you did love him you'd want him off drugs and with you. You'd realize he can't get off drugs without help and do something to help him. Instead you used the formula: kick or stay away from me.
Solve all of your troubles first, then..
How is that supposed to be of any help to your relationship? A drug addict life revolves around drugs. Even if he gets help on his own so you do not dump him he would still be struggling with his addiction and with you. So instead of taking one big trouble out of the equation, you'd just add some more there for both.
Isn't love also about being there for your guy to help him and share the bad times as well as the good ones? or it is just about taking the best that's there then just walk out on the guy whenever he starts being a burden? and needing more than he can give?
That's the end of it in case you were wondering.
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Sure, but this is something she's had to deal with too. I get being there for your guy, but at some point you need to be there for yourself too, and if she thinks she needs to live her life without these things in it she ABSOLUTELY has a right to make that statement.
Way to emphasize my problem, thanks. Yeah, I really needed you to explain to me that drugs feel super good and its hard to resist them. That clears up the past year of my life! You're awesome!
Of course I don't want to tell him that. But it's hard to be around people using when you're trying to stop. I'm just asking him to try is all.
well im with a pothead and he refuses to get help and when he doesn have weed he treats me like shit on the ground and when i dont give him money for it its even worse! i don't know what to do cause he refuses to get help cause he thinks he doesn't have a problem