You don't "worry you could be bi/homosexual".
You know you are at some point. Go figure.
Aside from the fact that her age almost implies a adventerous sexual nature, that does NOWHERE mean she's bisexual.
While i am bi, i had a habit of masturbating together with another female classmate/friend from around her age up until we went to two different universities.
That female friend is now happily married with children.
She was not interested in a relationship, she had crushes and boyfriends even, it was just fooling around even while she was with male partners, and passed again when the contact got less and less. For her, just experimentation, experiences, and joy.
What i am trying to say, even if Marth would find OTHER woman attractive, even feminine woman, that would not make her bi automatically. In her age, she can be curious and hormonally unbalanced all she wants, and even experimenting with other girls does not make her bi. Thats not to say she is not, but at that age, you try many things that you may give up again.
The fact she only "fancied" this woman because she looks a lot like her crush, or gave her the same kind of look, basically means nothing about her sexuality.
Heck, there's some croation male model that looks more feminine than many woman, i don't remember his name. I can assure you that most man would find him hot. Being attracted to certain features, to beauty, and to what you want to see in a person has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
Now, i failed to make this short after all, but i hope she can stop worrying...and best of luck with her crush ;)
true that, but around that age, it may be confusing, one may be ashamed, it may feel weird...
My parents were moderately convervative in those things, and i know if i had not had my sister to support me, i would probably have taken a lot longer to open up to them about my nature.
Depending on how and where you grew up, it may not be so simple as just accepting for yourself that you are not heterosexual.
The girl here seems to be confused and worried about it, so basically, ya, being bi is perfectly fine. And fun. But at her age, i wouldn't consider her sexuality to be stable enough to "classify" her as any one of the options.
Is it normal that I think that everyone looks like my crush?
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Really, i'll make this short.
You don't "worry you could be bi/homosexual".
You know you are at some point. Go figure.
Aside from the fact that her age almost implies a adventerous sexual nature, that does NOWHERE mean she's bisexual.
While i am bi, i had a habit of masturbating together with another female classmate/friend from around her age up until we went to two different universities.
That female friend is now happily married with children.
She was not interested in a relationship, she had crushes and boyfriends even, it was just fooling around even while she was with male partners, and passed again when the contact got less and less. For her, just experimentation, experiences, and joy.
What i am trying to say, even if Marth would find OTHER woman attractive, even feminine woman, that would not make her bi automatically. In her age, she can be curious and hormonally unbalanced all she wants, and even experimenting with other girls does not make her bi. Thats not to say she is not, but at that age, you try many things that you may give up again.
The fact she only "fancied" this woman because she looks a lot like her crush, or gave her the same kind of look, basically means nothing about her sexuality.
Heck, there's some croation male model that looks more feminine than many woman, i don't remember his name. I can assure you that most man would find him hot. Being attracted to certain features, to beauty, and to what you want to see in a person has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
Now, i failed to make this short after all, but i hope she can stop worrying...and best of luck with her crush ;)
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Well said.
My only point to add is, there is nothing wrong with being bi. Everyone I know in real life is...
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true that, but around that age, it may be confusing, one may be ashamed, it may feel weird...
My parents were moderately convervative in those things, and i know if i had not had my sister to support me, i would probably have taken a lot longer to open up to them about my nature.
Depending on how and where you grew up, it may not be so simple as just accepting for yourself that you are not heterosexual.
The girl here seems to be confused and worried about it, so basically, ya, being bi is perfectly fine. And fun. But at her age, i wouldn't consider her sexuality to be stable enough to "classify" her as any one of the options.
really...everyone??
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I know about 54 people, and although a few are married, they all have done things with the same sex on multiple occasions.
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wow gosh...