What I meant to add, was every bi-guy I've ever known, who excluded their bisexuality, was because they fell inlove. REALLY fell inlove and with a male, because at the end of the day, no matter how much they WERE dating (both genders) the males were where their heart was, all along, they just had not found "that person", only one that can really "get to you" and affect you like no other. That feeling of deep love, the genuine connection and devotion, even little things like holding hands, hearing their voice, endearing words, just laying and do nothing, but it beats anything "better" going on, that feeling of "home" comfort, safety, genuine happiness, when you see them. It seems those who have lacked this real mutual connection (whole heart) and the person feeling it just the same, back, are often the ones who are confused.
If anything I am pro-gay, pro-be who you are. I just am aware there is sex and your orientation and who makes you feel that love on every level, is what you're bound to end up with and it IS gender oriented. There's nothing wrong with this. Maybe it comes off ignorant, but if it's one thing I get, it's love/confusion and orientation.
Is it normal that I think that bisexuals suffer much more than gays?
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What I meant to add, was every bi-guy I've ever known, who excluded their bisexuality, was because they fell inlove. REALLY fell inlove and with a male, because at the end of the day, no matter how much they WERE dating (both genders) the males were where their heart was, all along, they just had not found "that person", only one that can really "get to you" and affect you like no other. That feeling of deep love, the genuine connection and devotion, even little things like holding hands, hearing their voice, endearing words, just laying and do nothing, but it beats anything "better" going on, that feeling of "home" comfort, safety, genuine happiness, when you see them. It seems those who have lacked this real mutual connection (whole heart) and the person feeling it just the same, back, are often the ones who are confused.
If anything I am pro-gay, pro-be who you are. I just am aware there is sex and your orientation and who makes you feel that love on every level, is what you're bound to end up with and it IS gender oriented. There's nothing wrong with this. Maybe it comes off ignorant, but if it's one thing I get, it's love/confusion and orientation.