Is it normal that i think my best friend is really ugly?

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I think my best friend is really, really ugly. I tell her she is pretty, because I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I actually think she is really ugly and not a very nice person.

She's really b**chy, can be really horrible to me and I don't see how she gets any guys at all. I do like her as a friend of course, and she can be really nice when she wants to be but she really makes me angry sometimes.

I don't think I'm really pretty or anything but I think I am better looking than her, and I don't see how she gets more guys than me at parties and stuff.

At the same time, I'd hate to be like her because she always gets really wasted when we go out or smoking too much weed and ends up throwing up everywhere and I end up looking after her, whereas I have only thrown up a couple of times when I first drank/smoked etc, and at these times she took the piss out of me for ages and told everyone, and basically really embarrassed me.

Haha, I've never told anyone this because I think its a really stupid way to feel. Is this normal?

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  • EvilPopTart
    11 years ago | pl

    If You Really Feel That Way About Your Friends Them Sneak Up On Them And Yell UGLY BITCH!

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago | pl

    your friend has no self confidence and there for gives herself away to guys very easy. they screw her then leave her and never talk to her again
    she does this to herself to make herself feel better for a short period of time.
    it is short because like i said above the guy screws her then leaves her.
    you are a better person for not giving yourself away that easy. make the guys work to earn you.
    you should be treated like a queen.
    and i agree w the person above you probably will lose connection with her in the future if you continue to feel the same way.
    she will only bring you down. you must focus on yourself and surround yourself with good people and good friends. people who have self confidence and aren't idiot drug addicts and alcoholics. these good people will bring you up. they will also treat you wonderful and have your back for whatever.
    ps it is normal to feel the way you do
    pss: it doesn't matter that she gets more guys than you because the guys she gets treat women like garbage. so you don't want to be around anyone who treats women (or girls) like shit

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    I see a lot of these "I hate my friend" posts.
    How do you have friends you don't even like? life is too short to hang around people you don't like!

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  • merebear
    10 years ago | pl

    I have a friend named Chloe that has a bunch of pimples and a unibrow and gets pissed over dumb things and I having like 2 zits pretty good eyebrows and a great personality yet she's had over 10 boyfriends and has like 5 guys sending her pics of their dicks and has like 20 guy friends and I have 2 guy friends no pictures of dicks (not that I want any) and have only had 1 boyfriend!

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  • Lynxikat
    11 years ago | pl

    I don't think it's normal that you're hanging out with her with you don't even like her :/

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  • imintrouble
    11 years ago | pl

    LOL i think the same thing about my best friend. But i guess i still love her. But i think you need to spend some time without her. Thats what i do!!

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  • LuffySp
    13 years ago | pl

    You basically said you hate her, then you "like her as a friend" that is a little bit fucked up. I think you need to pull away from her.

    She's only getting guys because she's easy. Trust me on this, I'm not bad looking and I never get hit on. Because I'm a "straight edge" (no drugs/drinking/smoking) and damn confident. I have never been hit on in my life. I asked my boyfriend out because he was too shy to approach me! You don't need to be worried about that.

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago | pl

    Normal. As you get older, you may not remain friends, especially if you already feel this way about her. She probably gets more guys because she comes off as easier and more approachable. You're right to avoid that kind of behavior, though. You're the more sensible of the pair of you, and that will get you much farther in life than getting laid at parties.

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