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Recently, my boyfriend and I broke up, he was a white belt, I want to go for his friend, whom is /very/ nice, (My old BF abused me), and he's also a black belt, but is it normal that after the breakup, I started loving black belts andf Mma fighters?
I think its normal. I'd imagine the black belt probably has a type of attractive, calm dominance about him that the white belt lacks. The white belt doesn't know how to fight yet, feels inadequate and like he has something to prove, and probably because of daddy issues or any number of issues he took it out on you. The black belt knows he can fight, and when you know you can fight you have to start asking yourself tough questions like "under what circumstances would I use this?", so he probably has a well defined personal moral code surrounding what he does. As ironic as it is, learning how to fight forces you to cultivate your character, and some of the nicest and kindest people I know are extremely experienced fighters.
It is perfectly normal - and RIGHT - for a woman to lust after a fighting man. Good (male) fighters tend to be genetically superior to other males (stronger, faster, and smarter is ALWAYS a good thing) and human females naturally desire to mate with superior, high-quality males. (A black belt is naturally going to be a better fighter than a white belt, so congrats on trading up!) Hand-to-hand combat is the ultimate (and most ancient) test of a man's strength, speed, and mental alertness; so it's only natural that you want to f**k an MMA fighter. (Unless you're a gay male talking about your "boyfriend" in which case the genetics argument doesn't apply - you're not going to bear his children after all.)