Is it normal that i think men like this are pathetic?

I'm probably gonna face the wrath of a bunch of angry is it normal users... but this has been on my mind for a while.

Here's the backstory: to my shame, I watch some reality tv. This one in particular (which shall remain nameless) I've become addicted to, and I know I shouldn't because it's God awful and the people on it are pure evil. One of the husbands of one of the castmates in particular drives me completely insane.

He likes to think of himself as a macho male and a tough guy; he thinks he's attractive and one of the greatest people to ever exist. Here's the thing: he loves to be around the camera. It's completely obvious that he loves the camera, and he loves the attention (On many occasions, he's been shown teasing other gay men on the show, even though he's married and throws himself on his wife any chance he gets... like having sex with her in the bathroom when the cameras are still on). He's catty, easily offended, manipulative, and loves to show off.

What I'm trying to say is that he acts a lot like a woman. Like a petty, pathetic woman. When a man gets so attention-needy and whiny like this guy is... I just find it so completely pathetic. That's the stereotype for WOMEN. The stereotype is that WOMEN crave the attention and need other people to tell them how hot and attractive they are. It's WOMEN that gossip, manipulate others to make themselves look like the victims, and shows off to the camera on how wonderful their life is, how rich they are, and how perfect as they are as people.

When I see a man act like that, I find it completely pathetic.

This is the gender that's ruled the world for thousands of years. This is the gender that's supposed to be the "superior" one. So when I see someone of the "superior" gender have all the traits that give women a bad name, and start ACTING like a sad woman with no life, I feel nothing but disgust and annoyance. I find attention-needy men completely pathetic.

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  • It's normal to be annoyed by his annoying behaviour; whether the person is a man or woman should be unimportant though.

    Maybe you should change your views on male "superiority" in the light of this discovery? ;)

    Unrelated side-note, but the reason you're so addicted to the show is probably partly down to how annoying the characters are. The creators of the show deliberately use annoying characters to make you "love to hate" them. You're playing into their hands by getting pissed off :P (That sounded a bit high-and-mighty, didn't it? It wasn't meant to.)

    Anyway, it isn't normal to be pissed off at people breaking out of stereotypes like you are. But it is normal to be annoyed by annoying people :P

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  • *sings*

    Macho, macho man!

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  • It's normal to think men like that are pathetic and normal to think that those behaviors are a gender thing exclusive to women. It's a people thing as men are also:
    1. Attention seeking as many feel upset when women don't want to be approached or when they don't get attention from women such as smiles or looking at him.

    2. Catty as many degrade and insult women on an array of things such as youth, beauty, sexual history.

    3. Easily offended as many consider calling a guy creepy akin to a committing a crime. Quite often simply anything that shows men aren't nearly faultless is labeled as man hating or feminazi propaganda.

    4. Manipulative as many use emotional and mental mind games to have sex under false pretense and promise.

    5. Love to show off as many show off simply for having a d*ck as it equates to being the superior gender and able to claim other mens' achievements and accomplishments. Quite often a guy will say men built civilization or ruled the world overlooking that only a minority of men did so and he wasn't one of them.

    6. Talking behind other peoples' back and then acting nice to their face as many consider themselves nice guys while degrading and insulting a gal they claim to love and want to be with. Quite often a nice guy will talk about how a ga is a slutty evil self-entitled b*tch who is too stupid to see what a great loving guy he'd be as her bf while resenting he's her friend.

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  • Anyone who acts like that is a friggin dork. Stop giving them ratings by watching the show.

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  • That's just the average metrosexual.

    Women are to blame for creating metro men, it's your own fault you stupid bitches!!!!

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    • Hell no cat. If a guy lets a woman dictate his style to that extent then he's worse than her.

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      • Very true, but those men were stupid and women took advantage of that.

        I will admit it is hillarious to see though, they wear pink t-shirts with the collars popped up and still don't get more chicks than a normal guy.

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        • Oh God the popped collar. I almost forgot that people do that. It is very entertaing. I'd like to see some metros fight over the bathroom. I wonder how long it takes them to get ready?

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          • I've seen it, about the same time as it takes a "very boppy girl".

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  • As soon as I got to; "He likes to think of himself as a macho male and a tough guy; he thinks he's attractive and one of the greatest people to ever exist." Immediately I was feeling the same way. What a douche. I don't like guys like that either!

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  • Facebook him and send him a message saying he acts like a chick. His response should be priceless lol

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  • I don't know if this makes any difference, but I'm female- I'm not trying to be misogynistic or anything, but I do recognize the stereotypical, negative personality traits that usually only women have (Like being catty, talking behind other peoples' back & then acting nice to their face- that sort of thing)- this "macho guy" inherits the all of the negative aspects that are associated with women.

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    • One thing I can't stand about women is they often find a simple flaw to make fun of somebody with their friends so in that very moment they feel better about themselves, superior and get approval from their friends, than that moment is gone, and whoever they made fun of is disgraced.

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  • Haha who likes a cocky prick? I think every single woman should share this mindset.

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  • I hate ANYONE whose like that. If it were up to me, I'd take a bullet to all of their heads.

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  • name?

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  • Ha.

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  • "People" like that are annoying, regardless of their gender.

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  • Sounds like theresas husband.

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