Dude.. I know exactly how you feel. The last person I dated used to tell me on a daily basis that I was flat chested (I'm a B) and had no ass (not true). He made fun of my baggy pants (My hips are disproportionate to the rest of my body so jeans don't fit right) and always implied he was better looking than me. I remember a distinct moment where he touched his hair, then touched mine and said... "Ew... my hair's getting as bad as [myname]'s now." and I was humiliated. of course thats just one example
Ugh i wish people would actually get with someone their 'type', and not someone theyre just going to make feel like shit all the time. And its not like i cant take a joke. Its just that when someones not nice to you daily, thats like one of youre enemies making a joke about you. Except it hurts worse. And i cant be with someone if i dont think they even find me attractive. Part of being with someone is being with someone that makes you happy and feel good about yourself. Not someone who makes you relapse into depression. >:( :(. And after a while i found my response when people said that stuffto me- then go be with someone who (has bigger boobs. Has a bigger butt. Has nicer hair. Is prettier. )..most importantly, just go be with someone you wont hurt all the time. Hm. Maybe someone worthy enough for you, since apparently im not. ... yeh. Lol. People suck sometimes. :) good to know someone gets it. *Frowns* but i wish no one else had to deal with it.
IIN that I think it's gross if a girl weighs more than 95 pounds?
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Dude.. I know exactly how you feel. The last person I dated used to tell me on a daily basis that I was flat chested (I'm a B) and had no ass (not true). He made fun of my baggy pants (My hips are disproportionate to the rest of my body so jeans don't fit right) and always implied he was better looking than me. I remember a distinct moment where he touched his hair, then touched mine and said... "Ew... my hair's getting as bad as [myname]'s now." and I was humiliated. of course thats just one example
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Ugh i wish people would actually get with someone their 'type', and not someone theyre just going to make feel like shit all the time. And its not like i cant take a joke. Its just that when someones not nice to you daily, thats like one of youre enemies making a joke about you. Except it hurts worse. And i cant be with someone if i dont think they even find me attractive. Part of being with someone is being with someone that makes you happy and feel good about yourself. Not someone who makes you relapse into depression. >:( :(. And after a while i found my response when people said that stuffto me- then go be with someone who (has bigger boobs. Has a bigger butt. Has nicer hair. Is prettier. )..most importantly, just go be with someone you wont hurt all the time. Hm. Maybe someone worthy enough for you, since apparently im not. ... yeh. Lol. People suck sometimes. :) good to know someone gets it. *Frowns* but i wish no one else had to deal with it.