Thanks lol. I'm not even stick thin but I am just over 100 and don't have the most feminine upper body, wide shoulders, small and whatnot, and I dont appreciated being told I'm not a woman
The op is still effed up but yeah its a natural body type. Preference is indeed preference and there should be nothing wrong with it as long as you're aware that those are your own expectations and they're not realistic for everyone lol
It's weird how right now there seems to be a popular trend of skinny-worship and simultaneous shaming
Yeahh yeahh, about that being told youre not a woman, i was with some guy and he almost made me cry before, just thinking about him depresses me because he was fuckin mean. I dont know why he ever tried to get with me in the fist place. He said things like - when are you going to hit puberty and grow some real boobs? Im like between a b and c cup and....im so fucking tired of people saying things like that to me. I wasnt a bitch. I dont know what would compel someone to be so mean to someone else. And i wear my pants pulled up higher sometimes, when i cant feel the waistband and i dont want my buttcrack to show and not know it. So i pull them up more. And he said -are you expecting a flood? I didnt know what he was talking about at first but then my friend told me and i actually found this pretty funny but then it wasnt funny with the fact that just the night before he said he wouldnt be mean to me and i told him how sad he was making me. My pants were pulled up bc i couldnt feel the waistband. He said are you expecting a flood? Bc my skinny jeans looked like highwaters. He asked why they were like that and i explained i didnt want my ass hanging out. He said -you have no ass. I tried to seem like i didnt care too much and said well then my ass crack. And he said no, maybe your ass hole. After he went down stairs i had to leave the room so my friend wouldnt see my eyes watering. And i know this post has a lot of people on it who probably wpuld be assholes like him, so ill also explain that ive had a modeling recruit tell me that i had a nice ass and if i was willing to work hard that i could get as far as victorias secret. I dont even care. That fucking hurt. Sorry for the novel though. This is fresh in my mind, it just happened tuesday.
Dude.. I know exactly how you feel. The last person I dated used to tell me on a daily basis that I was flat chested (I'm a B) and had no ass (not true). He made fun of my baggy pants (My hips are disproportionate to the rest of my body so jeans don't fit right) and always implied he was better looking than me. I remember a distinct moment where he touched his hair, then touched mine and said... "Ew... my hair's getting as bad as [myname]'s now." and I was humiliated. of course thats just one example
Ugh i wish people would actually get with someone their 'type', and not someone theyre just going to make feel like shit all the time. And its not like i cant take a joke. Its just that when someones not nice to you daily, thats like one of youre enemies making a joke about you. Except it hurts worse. And i cant be with someone if i dont think they even find me attractive. Part of being with someone is being with someone that makes you happy and feel good about yourself. Not someone who makes you relapse into depression. >:( :(. And after a while i found my response when people said that stuffto me- then go be with someone who (has bigger boobs. Has a bigger butt. Has nicer hair. Is prettier. )..most importantly, just go be with someone you wont hurt all the time. Hm. Maybe someone worthy enough for you, since apparently im not. ... yeh. Lol. People suck sometimes. :) good to know someone gets it. *Frowns* but i wish no one else had to deal with it.
IIN that I think it's gross if a girl weighs more than 95 pounds?
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Thanks lol. I'm not even stick thin but I am just over 100 and don't have the most feminine upper body, wide shoulders, small and whatnot, and I dont appreciated being told I'm not a woman
The op is still effed up but yeah its a natural body type. Preference is indeed preference and there should be nothing wrong with it as long as you're aware that those are your own expectations and they're not realistic for everyone lol
It's weird how right now there seems to be a popular trend of skinny-worship and simultaneous shaming
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Yeahh yeahh, about that being told youre not a woman, i was with some guy and he almost made me cry before, just thinking about him depresses me because he was fuckin mean. I dont know why he ever tried to get with me in the fist place. He said things like - when are you going to hit puberty and grow some real boobs? Im like between a b and c cup and....im so fucking tired of people saying things like that to me. I wasnt a bitch. I dont know what would compel someone to be so mean to someone else. And i wear my pants pulled up higher sometimes, when i cant feel the waistband and i dont want my buttcrack to show and not know it. So i pull them up more. And he said -are you expecting a flood? I didnt know what he was talking about at first but then my friend told me and i actually found this pretty funny but then it wasnt funny with the fact that just the night before he said he wouldnt be mean to me and i told him how sad he was making me. My pants were pulled up bc i couldnt feel the waistband. He said are you expecting a flood? Bc my skinny jeans looked like highwaters. He asked why they were like that and i explained i didnt want my ass hanging out. He said -you have no ass. I tried to seem like i didnt care too much and said well then my ass crack. And he said no, maybe your ass hole. After he went down stairs i had to leave the room so my friend wouldnt see my eyes watering. And i know this post has a lot of people on it who probably wpuld be assholes like him, so ill also explain that ive had a modeling recruit tell me that i had a nice ass and if i was willing to work hard that i could get as far as victorias secret. I dont even care. That fucking hurt. Sorry for the novel though. This is fresh in my mind, it just happened tuesday.
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Dude.. I know exactly how you feel. The last person I dated used to tell me on a daily basis that I was flat chested (I'm a B) and had no ass (not true). He made fun of my baggy pants (My hips are disproportionate to the rest of my body so jeans don't fit right) and always implied he was better looking than me. I remember a distinct moment where he touched his hair, then touched mine and said... "Ew... my hair's getting as bad as [myname]'s now." and I was humiliated. of course thats just one example
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Ugh i wish people would actually get with someone their 'type', and not someone theyre just going to make feel like shit all the time. And its not like i cant take a joke. Its just that when someones not nice to you daily, thats like one of youre enemies making a joke about you. Except it hurts worse. And i cant be with someone if i dont think they even find me attractive. Part of being with someone is being with someone that makes you happy and feel good about yourself. Not someone who makes you relapse into depression. >:( :(. And after a while i found my response when people said that stuffto me- then go be with someone who (has bigger boobs. Has a bigger butt. Has nicer hair. Is prettier. )..most importantly, just go be with someone you wont hurt all the time. Hm. Maybe someone worthy enough for you, since apparently im not. ... yeh. Lol. People suck sometimes. :) good to know someone gets it. *Frowns* but i wish no one else had to deal with it.