Even for people who have been married and experienced all kinds of love, someone paying attention can be distracting. It's well-known, for instance, for patients to fall for their psychiatrists or doctors because both professions and taking notice of them and want the "patient" to feel better.
If someone pays attention to us, our first question should always be what their motives are, rather than how it makes us feel.
IIN that I think I'm in love with someone that's paid attention to me?
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Even for people who have been married and experienced all kinds of love, someone paying attention can be distracting. It's well-known, for instance, for patients to fall for their psychiatrists or doctors because both professions and taking notice of them and want the "patient" to feel better.
If someone pays attention to us, our first question should always be what their motives are, rather than how it makes us feel.