Is it normal that i think i'm going to be alone forever?

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well I'm not exactly having an easy time with the ladies. I'm just going to be straight up I've only dated a girl once. i really don't understand it I'm not gay and had opportunities, but i was afraid because my parents instilled the whole marrying the first girl you meet thing lol. i really don't agree with a lot my parental advice i received when i was younger. that is a different issue. don't get me wrong I'm perfectly happy. i have lots of friends and they try to help me and give me confidence to talk to girls i never would. i have no problem getting a number it just seems once i get the number the girl realizes there's something wrong with me and doesn't want to hang out. i don't know maybe I'm just fugly.another thing i think is maybe I'm just to much of a nice guy. i mean my friends an ass to chicks and he always gets girls.i did meet a girl that i thought the world of but after hundreds of dollars later ,and no nookie i realized that i was a tool.she would ignore me in front of her friends just all around treated me bad. she didn't like my goofy friends who really don't care about there social status.i really don't think she liked me. i tried so hard to make it work and after a year i just completely gave up.so now luckily my friends forgave my puppy dog crush and now i just can't seem to get a girl any advice?

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  • BooyaTurkey
    14 years ago | pl

    For some reason, girls like assholes- I can't explain it- they just do. But I believe that people find love in the times when they least expect. Don't worry too much and don't be trying so hard to find a girl. Just live your life and do whatever, and eventually, I promise something will come along. She will love you for who you are. and don't let any girl treat you badly - as soon as you notice that, leave her.

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    • Fatah
      13 years ago | pl

      Girls don't like "assholes." I should know as I am a woman of 37. Some girls think they do, but what girls really want is a man with cool confidence, a leader. Unfortunately, these days the closest a girl can get to this ideal is the "asshole." But, even the "asshole" is better than a meek little puppy dog of a guy who lets the girl decide every move he should make.

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  • nemoboy108
    12 years ago | pl

    Bitches be crazy.

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  • unhneon
    13 years ago | pl

    Respectful conversation, active listening, and some social interaction are some key skills you should be mindful of, or brush up on. Chances are you're a great guy... chances also are that you're young guy, because eventually educated women (this means they've matured, and in most cases this is 25yrs old or more)
    will come back to the, gainfully employed, drug free, nice guy.
    Trust me, I'm 30 now, and life is as good as it has ever been

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  • Chill_Pill
    14 years ago | pl

    Here's my advice...CALM DOWN!!! There. Just chill and love will come in time. Don't be in such a rush. You can do it! Good Luck!

    ~Peace~

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    • cy9293
      14 years ago | pl

      i m just going to say it straight
      maybe more of the girls you meet don't like your personality. Maybe it could be you joke around too much
      -you do stupid tricks that are funny the first time but gets lame later on
      -you are too shy sometimes
      -you repeat your lame jokes
      idk but you give me that type of guy
      but yea... theres over 3 billion people you are able to date and there will be someone who would like you

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  • cdudeadam
    12 years ago | pl

    Probably, Your not going to be able to get a girlfriend until your 50: so don't even try. There's far more men hunting for the 20 womens demographic. You'll never figure out what they "want" because half the time its arbitrarily selective - the other half want jerks because thats what it means to be a true man. This isn't what you want to hear but there's really not much you can do about it.

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  • SexyFallenAngel
    13 years ago | pl

    You are SO sweet!!! You know the girls that go out with your friend come to there senses and figure out that they realy want guys like you. You will find someone!

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