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I really love this girl, but that's mostly another story...
I think I am mostly into her, because she is constantly depressed and has (only to me) admitted that she's cutting herself and that she's crying herself to sleep every night.
Is it normal that I think this is something, but not the only thing, that would make her the perfect girl for me?
Depression and self harm are definitely not attractive and your attraction to these qualities is an indication you're living in some fantasy land that you can "save" this girl all by yourself and be the big hero in her life.
She needs professional help and if you really care about her rather than your own ego, please encourage her to find a therapist.
If it was reversed, you'd tell the girl to run for the hills and not look back because the guy is "damaged goods" or some other nonsense.
Why anyone thumbs up your comments is one of the most confusing aspects of this website.
The girl in this story clearly needs to just woman up already.