It's not a "female" thing, it a human being thing. My guys friends (actually all) have had at least one situation of "that girl" that got to them, and have had some insane melt downs, over their girls. One went to jail, for stalking his ex (he parked outside of her house and would beg me to use my car to sit in) and eventually he did a stint for beating the crap out of her current bf -- One would confide in me for hours (all while calling his "gf" incessantly and punching walls/crying in a freakish grunt-like hysteria, thinking she was not answering due to a ridiculous cheating suspicion) She eventually told me that he wanted marriage/more and she didn't feel the same, about him. One crept outside his gf's house, knocked on the door for an hour, until she answered and forced himself in the house, to which I had to force him to leave with me, ultimately, because she left him and he didn't want to accept that; Men are just more "aggressive" in their jealous/passionate rages and often hide it. It's us friends who see/hear the other side and know how they (we) are. Most of the time the wall punching/crying, isn't seen by the girl, it's in privacy and they would never admit what they acted like, over those "missed calls".. But I unfortunately, I have seen it and heard it all.. haha. Stalking was a serious issue, I saw. 90% of the time, these girls had no clue, about that aspect.
One in particular, drove 5hrs to try and find his ex, even though she'd taken their son and left him (due to cheating/his abuse).. He hit her, not the newborn son, but he didn't give two shits about the kid and made that apparent in conversation (he was actually jealous of his own son/the attention she showed him) He just wanted HER back.. So he left town and tried to "rekindle", but could not get through, due to her family protecting her.
The most awkward situation, was a college friend who destroyed his ex's apt, because she left him. He said he just wanted to grab clothes, NOPE, he went ape and destroyed all of her shit! I had to call her and have her come to the apt, cops called. Another bad one!
I have heard and seen it all. College years, post-college (post is actually worse)... These are guys that girls would think were immune to "pain" or heartache. Fit, attractive, athletes, unattainable acting/popular etc
It just sounds like you're younger or do not have guy friends that'd confide in you, like they do other males.
Keep in mind, yes, even other men CAN/will get just as crazy, when inlove, most women just think this is not true because a guy either has not shown this type of behavior towards them specifically or because they do not know what their bf is like behind a macho/nothing effects me facade; My friends have shown the worst sides of them for the girls that "got" to them, the keepers, the wifey material, the beauty queens... And not all girls can grasp us so easily, but when the right one does, we can get intense. I've had my nonsensical moments, I admit. Just not aggressive. But those situations do not even brink the emotional friends I've had. Who cried their hearts out, laid in bed lifeless over a split.
Men just try TOO hard to hide their feelings, when that fails, you see hulk and it's scary, or you just do not see the pain they really endure. People love hard, it's unavoidable.
I'm 25 years old. I have more male friends then female ones.
and yes, some of the men in my life are nuttier then shit house rats, no joke, but my reason for posting this originally stemmed from a situation I observed at work a few days ago.
I was doing a clients hair (male client, never laid eyes on the man before in my life) and i was shaving his neck with my straight blade (the razor with no guards, nothing to protect you from the blade, asside from your steady hand)
And while he was sitting there his phone rang. He didnt answer, and within five minutes in comes this beautiful blonde woman who legit scanned the room, saw him in my chair and lost it. She started screaming at him for not answering his phone, and through the jiggs and reels of it, she grabbed the blade out of my hand. I had to literally grab it back from her and cut myself deeply because she was mad he didnt answer her phone call.
just before christmas, I was again, in the shop. I was writing a list of items I needed to pick up from the supplier and I could hear a woman whonsounded very angry.so naturally, assuming she was yelling at one of my staff, I went to the next room only to find her on the phone screaming and yelling at some guy who was no joke, parked in the parking lot of the shop..why was she yelling at him? Because he pushed his seat back in the car to lay back, amd she coukdnt see him in the big window anymore. So she was accusing him of all sorts of things, had she juscstood up, she would have seen him in the same spot as she left him.
is it normal that I think chicks in relationships are nuts?
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It's not a "female" thing, it a human being thing. My guys friends (actually all) have had at least one situation of "that girl" that got to them, and have had some insane melt downs, over their girls. One went to jail, for stalking his ex (he parked outside of her house and would beg me to use my car to sit in) and eventually he did a stint for beating the crap out of her current bf -- One would confide in me for hours (all while calling his "gf" incessantly and punching walls/crying in a freakish grunt-like hysteria, thinking she was not answering due to a ridiculous cheating suspicion) She eventually told me that he wanted marriage/more and she didn't feel the same, about him. One crept outside his gf's house, knocked on the door for an hour, until she answered and forced himself in the house, to which I had to force him to leave with me, ultimately, because she left him and he didn't want to accept that; Men are just more "aggressive" in their jealous/passionate rages and often hide it. It's us friends who see/hear the other side and know how they (we) are. Most of the time the wall punching/crying, isn't seen by the girl, it's in privacy and they would never admit what they acted like, over those "missed calls".. But I unfortunately, I have seen it and heard it all.. haha. Stalking was a serious issue, I saw. 90% of the time, these girls had no clue, about that aspect.
One in particular, drove 5hrs to try and find his ex, even though she'd taken their son and left him (due to cheating/his abuse).. He hit her, not the newborn son, but he didn't give two shits about the kid and made that apparent in conversation (he was actually jealous of his own son/the attention she showed him) He just wanted HER back.. So he left town and tried to "rekindle", but could not get through, due to her family protecting her.
The most awkward situation, was a college friend who destroyed his ex's apt, because she left him. He said he just wanted to grab clothes, NOPE, he went ape and destroyed all of her shit! I had to call her and have her come to the apt, cops called. Another bad one!
I have heard and seen it all. College years, post-college (post is actually worse)... These are guys that girls would think were immune to "pain" or heartache. Fit, attractive, athletes, unattainable acting/popular etc
It just sounds like you're younger or do not have guy friends that'd confide in you, like they do other males.
Keep in mind, yes, even other men CAN/will get just as crazy, when inlove, most women just think this is not true because a guy either has not shown this type of behavior towards them specifically or because they do not know what their bf is like behind a macho/nothing effects me facade; My friends have shown the worst sides of them for the girls that "got" to them, the keepers, the wifey material, the beauty queens... And not all girls can grasp us so easily, but when the right one does, we can get intense. I've had my nonsensical moments, I admit. Just not aggressive. But those situations do not even brink the emotional friends I've had. Who cried their hearts out, laid in bed lifeless over a split.
Men just try TOO hard to hide their feelings, when that fails, you see hulk and it's scary, or you just do not see the pain they really endure. People love hard, it's unavoidable.
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I'm 25 years old. I have more male friends then female ones.
and yes, some of the men in my life are nuttier then shit house rats, no joke, but my reason for posting this originally stemmed from a situation I observed at work a few days ago.
I was doing a clients hair (male client, never laid eyes on the man before in my life) and i was shaving his neck with my straight blade (the razor with no guards, nothing to protect you from the blade, asside from your steady hand)
And while he was sitting there his phone rang. He didnt answer, and within five minutes in comes this beautiful blonde woman who legit scanned the room, saw him in my chair and lost it. She started screaming at him for not answering his phone, and through the jiggs and reels of it, she grabbed the blade out of my hand. I had to literally grab it back from her and cut myself deeply because she was mad he didnt answer her phone call.
just before christmas, I was again, in the shop. I was writing a list of items I needed to pick up from the supplier and I could hear a woman whonsounded very angry.so naturally, assuming she was yelling at one of my staff, I went to the next room only to find her on the phone screaming and yelling at some guy who was no joke, parked in the parking lot of the shop..why was she yelling at him? Because he pushed his seat back in the car to lay back, amd she coukdnt see him in the big window anymore. So she was accusing him of all sorts of things, had she juscstood up, she would have seen him in the same spot as she left him.