But most of the time it is the victims fault. For example, I was bullied because I was shy and a pushover. I learned to not be and the bullying stopped. If we continue to punish strength and reward weakness then the next generation will grow up weak.
When was the last time you saw a bully pick on someone stronger than themselves, to prove how great they were?
It's not punishing strength it's punishing cowards.
People who never grow out of being bullies, usually always fail at life, because they never push themselves against greater opponents, and rarely suceed after high school.
You can't speed up natural selection. Just ask Hitler.
How the fuck was it your fault that you weren't socially outgoing and an obnoxiously assertive asshole?
That was the person you were. The cretinous mob passed judgement and found you wanting, so all the insecure, self-hating dickheads decided to unload their frustrations and anxieties about who _they_ were on you -- that year's chosen scapegoat.
You may want to believe that the experience didn't affect you negatively, but what happened is that you accepted the collective idiocy of the mob, changed your behaviour to fit in with crowd, and now you're saying that anyone who can't cope with bullies should be tossed to the wolves.
IIN that I think anti bullying has gone to far?
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But most of the time it is the victims fault. For example, I was bullied because I was shy and a pushover. I learned to not be and the bullying stopped. If we continue to punish strength and reward weakness then the next generation will grow up weak.
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It is NEVER the victim's fault!
When was the last time you saw a bully pick on someone stronger than themselves, to prove how great they were?
It's not punishing strength it's punishing cowards.
People who never grow out of being bullies, usually always fail at life, because they never push themselves against greater opponents, and rarely suceed after high school.
You can't speed up natural selection. Just ask Hitler.
How the fuck was it your fault that you weren't socially outgoing and an obnoxiously assertive asshole?
That was the person you were. The cretinous mob passed judgement and found you wanting, so all the insecure, self-hating dickheads decided to unload their frustrations and anxieties about who _they_ were on you -- that year's chosen scapegoat.
You may want to believe that the experience didn't affect you negatively, but what happened is that you accepted the collective idiocy of the mob, changed your behaviour to fit in with crowd, and now you're saying that anyone who can't cope with bullies should be tossed to the wolves.