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So my problem always has been it takes forever for me to reach orgasm from just oral stimulation. Or even just clitoral. It takes a lot of pressure and whatever and yet I still only get what I call mini orgasms. I reach a high point slightly and then it declines. Does any other woman have this problem? My boyfriend even has trouble with this and I don't know any techniques to help him out to get me over the edge. Any suggestions?
Not everyone gets off from clitoral stimulation actually. Different people respond to different things. I'm actually the other way around... I can always get off with clitoral stimulation, but I can never get off on penetration when I try it myself and it took my boyfriend a long time to figure out how to do it.
Basically its a trial and error process, that's all I can tell you.
you have to learn what works it is kind of like the chicken and the egg as you have to get good experience to get confidence and know what you are working towards is worth the effort . It is a combination of some clitoral and some putting pressure just inside the vagina about two finger joints in and moving your finger as if beckoning someone closer to you a fuller bladder even very full will help this as it makes that area stick out and be hard /sensitive . Other bonus is after action letting out distended bladder will feel extremely good and bladder will super empty . Plus is getting these feeling when full will make skipping the ladies on the way to see your man so you are already full you will be already building up syching yourself for the fun to be so a sort of extended for play some nice new panties for man to discover and appreciate may add to the unwrapping fun as well . Not saying to wet or make a mess just saying to have fun enjoy yourself
Lay on your back, get your boyfriend to insert his two fingers nearest his pinky inside you palm facing up and then to forcefully start pumping upwards towards the roof, its is an absolute brilliant technique for making a girl literally squirt and cum really hard. It does work as well.
Maybe your not turned on enough? Try something more exciting/erotic/naughty, maybe that'll get ya goin. I'm not recommending this, it's just an example, but some people get really turned on by doing it in public even though they find it really embarrassing, it still turns them on to no end. Find something that does that to you, experiment, and that way you will mentally and physically be stimulated and might be easier for you to orgasm.