Is it normal that i suck at masterbating?

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I'm female and A virgin. I'm quite the unaccomplished masterbater :/ It seems like the only thing that can make me have any pleasure is humping objects (pillows, blankets ect.) And although it feels good it's just a short burst that only lasts less than 20 seconds before it disappears and I feel nothing (even when I'm still grinding I get nada!) I have tried to finger and touch myself but it's actually really uncomfertable and I get no reaction. It doesn't feel sexual, just like I'm touching it. When I use a vibrating toy (Not a dildo or inserting object) I get a strange feeling but it's not really the feeling I was looking for (It's weird but not enjoyable) Nothing can rival the feeling of humping things :( And I would really want to feel an orgasm... is it normal that I can't I don't feel anything when I touch myself?

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  • missmeow
    12 years ago

    Don't listen to the idiots saying watch videos. Porn does not equal the reality. Im a girl and I was 18 before I had an orgasm. You just have to keep trying different things. Google female masturbation for ideas and try different combos of things to get you there.

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  • ladeedah
    12 years ago

    Honestly, it takes practice.

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    u can go to the club and grind away!?! hahaha oky that bad advice sorry =P

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  • JayeZombie
    12 years ago

    its hard to say what u need based on this. have u ever had a guy try stuff on u? i know of several women that can only climax from oral sex. maybe if u used lubrication of some sort it would feel alot better for u. even if its just for clitoral stimulation, u may notice a difference

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  • normalmonkey
    12 years ago

    How old are you? cause I mean, I was exactly the same when I was younger. These things develop as you get older/mature and become more sexual in general, you learn your body and what 'gets you in the mood' etc.
    If you aren't young I apologise for making that assumption! :)

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Watch videos

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i dnu how its possible to suck at masturbation?
    you can watch more videos.
    ask a really really really close friend how she does it?
    and if that doesent work then i cant help ya.
    i know how my girl likes it but other then that im a guy.

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