Is it normal that i still miss my first girlfriend?

Ive only dated four girls. Im 19. My first girlfriend and I had been friends for 6 years before we started dating. It lasted 8 months... arguably the best 8 month span in my life so far. My last three girlfriends have either cheated on me or just haven't lived up to rachels' qualities. I still miss her even though weve been broken up for 3 years. I want her back more than anything because I believe we were meant for each other but I want her to be happy even if it is with me... Is it normal to miss her this much?

Is It Normal?
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  • aw! you're a cute one.
    ask her how she would feel about it?

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  • There is an old sayin, "You never forget your first love." Its true. I am in my late 40's, married for 25 yrs and still think of the first guy I loved when I was 4 yrs old. We were going to get married and have babies. Saw him last year, same old feelings for both of us.

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  • of course you miss her youve known her for how long! and cmon your only 19, i bet you havent even stopped growin yet. sorry not helpin :)

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  • Its normal actually. you're one of a kind. hmm the best thing you can do is look for her. if you still have a contact number then call her. if not search her on facebook. use the friendsfinder. and tell her how you feel at least you would lessen the burden you feel,

    Smile :)

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  • It's normal. It's also been 3 years since the only girlfriend I've ever had left me so you're not alone :)

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  • I still miss my first GF and we split like 8 years ago, we date for 2 and a half years. ^^ the stupid is, it was me that want to breakup. Probably the big mistake I did :S don't despite the other girls I have, they all are great, but... Looks like she is/was the one :/

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