Wow. That was the best piece of advice any one has ever given me on this dilemna. I'm promoting you to Commander Amazing.
I couldn't believe as I read that, you sounded just like her. And I even thought it could even be her, till you stated that he left you in the end, which is the only difference I can see so far!
I've been having a terrible time dealing with the thought of how she treated me in comparison to her guy friends. You have made everything make so much more sense. I was never a jealous guy, but the fact that she stopped texting me, it was like she stopped because she was enjoying their company more, and it ate away at me.
You made me remember how she too went through some taxing situations when things got bad and they severely affected our time together, especially on the intimacy front of things.
I even did what you said your ex does to you! I texted her (about twice total) just to say something like "Happy Birthday :)" but never replied after that. I felt it wasn't my place. It was my way of showing her I care without bringing up old pains. I didn't to risk upsetting her.
And in my case my ex is also dating someone new. I hear he's just like me. But rich. ¬_¬
It's upseting of course, but if he truly is a nice guy and treats her with the same respect I treated her with, then I can live with it.
Anyway, thank you for the advice! We are not alone in our troubles.
Is it normal that I still miss my ex girlfriend after nearly 2 years?
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Wow. That was the best piece of advice any one has ever given me on this dilemna. I'm promoting you to Commander Amazing.
I couldn't believe as I read that, you sounded just like her. And I even thought it could even be her, till you stated that he left you in the end, which is the only difference I can see so far!
I've been having a terrible time dealing with the thought of how she treated me in comparison to her guy friends. You have made everything make so much more sense. I was never a jealous guy, but the fact that she stopped texting me, it was like she stopped because she was enjoying their company more, and it ate away at me.
You made me remember how she too went through some taxing situations when things got bad and they severely affected our time together, especially on the intimacy front of things.
I even did what you said your ex does to you! I texted her (about twice total) just to say something like "Happy Birthday :)" but never replied after that. I felt it wasn't my place. It was my way of showing her I care without bringing up old pains. I didn't to risk upsetting her.
And in my case my ex is also dating someone new. I hear he's just like me. But rich. ¬_¬
It's upseting of course, but if he truly is a nice guy and treats her with the same respect I treated her with, then I can live with it.
Anyway, thank you for the advice! We are not alone in our troubles.