I had a simular experience a couple years back. She was my first girlfriend and we dated around 1 and 1/2 years. I thought she loved me as much as I loved her, but she ended it.
I was in a low spot for a really long time. I can tell you "It gets better." It's hard to get over your first love, especaily if they're the one to end it. But, over time, you'll find youself able move on.
One of my main issues with moving on is that I have no idea how she felt by the end of our relationship. Did she really love me till the end? I have no idea and I feel like everything would be so much clearer if I could find out...
She will never tell you the truth about how she felt at the end in case she hurts you all over again. However, if she still loved you as much as you loved her then it would never have ended - sorry :o(
Just give it time and keep your eyes open for the next love of your life.
I had a few long term (and long distance) relationships but looking back, I can only fall to my knees and thank God that I never married any of them. I know now that I would've been very unhappy and divorced.
joybird's right. Moving on is the course of action here. Probbing for a spark that most likely died out a while ago will only serve to confuse and hurt you more. I'm sorry.
Buh. I would love to fully move on. I really would.
It distracts me at work and while I'm socializing. Though she does get brought up alot when I'm with friends, and that can be quite a downer on the evening for me.
Whenever I'm fantasizing about my future, whatever I'm thinking about, she always squirms her way into that thought, and I don't even realise it till it's too late.
I've only contacted her once properly since we broke up. A couple of months ago now. I didn't get the feeling she was forcing it, but the conversation was pretty boring. Talking about how we are and such moved onto work and bleh.
Is it normal that I still miss my ex girlfriend after nearly 2 years?
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I had a simular experience a couple years back. She was my first girlfriend and we dated around 1 and 1/2 years. I thought she loved me as much as I loved her, but she ended it.
I was in a low spot for a really long time. I can tell you "It gets better." It's hard to get over your first love, especaily if they're the one to end it. But, over time, you'll find youself able move on.
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One of my main issues with moving on is that I have no idea how she felt by the end of our relationship. Did she really love me till the end? I have no idea and I feel like everything would be so much clearer if I could find out...
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She will never tell you the truth about how she felt at the end in case she hurts you all over again. However, if she still loved you as much as you loved her then it would never have ended - sorry :o(
Just give it time and keep your eyes open for the next love of your life.
I had a few long term (and long distance) relationships but looking back, I can only fall to my knees and thank God that I never married any of them. I know now that I would've been very unhappy and divorced.
What's for you won't go past you - chill out.
joybird's right. Moving on is the course of action here. Probbing for a spark that most likely died out a while ago will only serve to confuse and hurt you more. I'm sorry.
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Buh. I would love to fully move on. I really would.
It distracts me at work and while I'm socializing. Though she does get brought up alot when I'm with friends, and that can be quite a downer on the evening for me.
Whenever I'm fantasizing about my future, whatever I'm thinking about, she always squirms her way into that thought, and I don't even realise it till it's too late.
I've only contacted her once properly since we broke up. A couple of months ago now. I didn't get the feeling she was forcing it, but the conversation was pretty boring. Talking about how we are and such moved onto work and bleh.