She seems to want to be friends with you and enjoy spending time with you, and the freedom to be able to be "flirty" since neither of you has significant others, I'm assuming (because that would be really effed up). If it's going to happen, it'll happen. Chilling and finding something else to think about, like self-improvement in something you are not dependent on another person for to feel good about yourself, would be the best way to achieve your goal here.
If she wants you, she'll show it in a way where you won't be confused about any mixed signals. If you "wait just in case" , hoping for more and wondering while you're with her, you're not enjoying her company and the friendship for what it realistically is. If it's too much for you to just accept the possibility that you're just friends and leave it at that, stop being friends with her, at least for a little while. She should be understanding of that. If you want to dial down the physical, etc., that should help as well. Since she seems to be enjoying it she'll certainly miss and want it when you withhold it and your attention/availability from her. (Immature) girls are strange creatures.
Is it normal that I still feel for my crush after 3 years?
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She seems to want to be friends with you and enjoy spending time with you, and the freedom to be able to be "flirty" since neither of you has significant others, I'm assuming (because that would be really effed up). If it's going to happen, it'll happen. Chilling and finding something else to think about, like self-improvement in something you are not dependent on another person for to feel good about yourself, would be the best way to achieve your goal here.
If she wants you, she'll show it in a way where you won't be confused about any mixed signals. If you "wait just in case" , hoping for more and wondering while you're with her, you're not enjoying her company and the friendship for what it realistically is. If it's too much for you to just accept the possibility that you're just friends and leave it at that, stop being friends with her, at least for a little while. She should be understanding of that. If you want to dial down the physical, etc., that should help as well. Since she seems to be enjoying it she'll certainly miss and want it when you withhold it and your attention/availability from her. (Immature) girls are strange creatures.