Love sucks but is also God's greatest gift once conquered. I met a guy at camp a few years ago. I didn't really talk to him that much but completely became obsessed with him. He lived 6 hours away and we would text every day. I really thought that I found my soul mate. One day he stopped texting me. I felt sick and depressed the rest of the summer. It took over a year to get over him. I felt a little suicidal, like no one would ever like me like he did. But that's so not true. Us teenagers have so much going through our minds. I personaly think that we want to be loved so badly by the opposite sex and when it does happen we cannot handle it. That is why I don't date yet because I know that I get attached way too easily. I know that you'll get through it. I also read some love books over the summer. There's a book called the four love languages. It's really interesting. It mentions that the first two years in a relationship are unreal. It's like a fantasy. You are obsessed with that other person but it's not real love. You think that it will be magical forever but you and that other person build up this fantasy that won't last. That's why a lot of people get divorced. They have the fantasy love their first two years of marriage and then don't know how to face real problems and real life situations. So what I'm trying to say is that a true relationship will last and will be meant to be. Depression is like a rocking chair, you never get any where. But life is like a roller coster and isn't always a straight path. Bad things can happen to all of us but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Hang in there and focus in on what you have instead of what you don't have. Learn more about what you have to offer the world. Learn and persue your passion and then eventually you will share your passion with someone else.
Is it normal that i still feel empty inside everyday of my life?
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Love sucks but is also God's greatest gift once conquered. I met a guy at camp a few years ago. I didn't really talk to him that much but completely became obsessed with him. He lived 6 hours away and we would text every day. I really thought that I found my soul mate. One day he stopped texting me. I felt sick and depressed the rest of the summer. It took over a year to get over him. I felt a little suicidal, like no one would ever like me like he did. But that's so not true. Us teenagers have so much going through our minds. I personaly think that we want to be loved so badly by the opposite sex and when it does happen we cannot handle it. That is why I don't date yet because I know that I get attached way too easily. I know that you'll get through it. I also read some love books over the summer. There's a book called the four love languages. It's really interesting. It mentions that the first two years in a relationship are unreal. It's like a fantasy. You are obsessed with that other person but it's not real love. You think that it will be magical forever but you and that other person build up this fantasy that won't last. That's why a lot of people get divorced. They have the fantasy love their first two years of marriage and then don't know how to face real problems and real life situations. So what I'm trying to say is that a true relationship will last and will be meant to be. Depression is like a rocking chair, you never get any where. But life is like a roller coster and isn't always a straight path. Bad things can happen to all of us but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. Hang in there and focus in on what you have instead of what you don't have. Learn more about what you have to offer the world. Learn and persue your passion and then eventually you will share your passion with someone else.