Being alone at Christmas must be awful, sorry you had to deal with that.
I don't think this guy deserves to be condemned, however I am surprised that he doesn't care more about how you feel at Christmas. You should make sure he understands how you feel about this. Try not to get down in the dumps about being ignored; your value as a person is not defined by how much time you spend with him or anyone else at any time of you.
My first thought is that you do seem quite dependent on him. Perhaps if you are often needy at other times of the year, he does not understand that being left alone at Christmas is more important that being alone any other time. Just a thought.
What I don't understand is why he wouldn't invite you to spend it with his family. You've been together for two years, so you must be serious so I'm sure you'd be welcome with him and his family. Tell him that.
IIN that I spend the holidays alone.... even with someone in my life?
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Being alone at Christmas must be awful, sorry you had to deal with that.
I don't think this guy deserves to be condemned, however I am surprised that he doesn't care more about how you feel at Christmas. You should make sure he understands how you feel about this. Try not to get down in the dumps about being ignored; your value as a person is not defined by how much time you spend with him or anyone else at any time of you.
My first thought is that you do seem quite dependent on him. Perhaps if you are often needy at other times of the year, he does not understand that being left alone at Christmas is more important that being alone any other time. Just a thought.
What I don't understand is why he wouldn't invite you to spend it with his family. You've been together for two years, so you must be serious so I'm sure you'd be welcome with him and his family. Tell him that.