Is it normal that i sometimes want to hit my mother?

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She humiliates me in public, she complains about every single thing about me, she has photos everywhere of my brother and sister but none of me, she constantly reminds me about my father even though what he did was beyond my control and I was practically a baby the time he did awful things and she keeps taking my money. I'm an adult and live alone but she still controls my life and I feel like she is a sadistic woman like she only wants me around so she can boss me around and treat me badly. She makes me feel suicidal sometimes. But anyway, back to topic, is it normal that I feel like hurting her because of how she treats me? Or am I a psychopath who needs serious help?

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Based on 12 votes (10 yes)
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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    You are bearing the brunt of emotional abuse. It's more likely she needs help and you'll need to stay away from her so the negative influence doesn't impact your future

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  • AntiArchon
    6 years ago

    Your narcissistic mother made you the scapegoat child.. cut her off, save your sanity and yourself..

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    You need to spend less and less time with her, maybe even cut her out of your life if you can at least for a while. Also look into learning how to set boundaries.

    Check out these two websites:

    http://www.adultchildren.org/
    http://coda.org/

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