Is it normal that i sometimes get huge crushes on my therapist?

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  • I had a psychologist who used to wear short dresses/skirts & sometimes low cut tops. Mostly I ignored it, but not always. We had to discuss sex & there was some flirting.

    I also had a woman G.P. (community doctor) who tho' married & very 'English Rose' & sweet.
    got into to flirting with my every monthly visit - unfortunately she had to move her work location so nothing had time to develop. I would really LOVE to have licked & fucked her, & I'm normally very restrained with married women as my parents divorced.

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  • Its called transference. Look it up on the web.

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  • Quite normal to have a crush on your therapist. I'm trained as a therapist, and we were taught to expect it and deal with it.

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  • If you've had multiple therapists? Yeah

    I had one on the therapist who was assigned to me while I was in a hospital. I also thought one of my old therapist's assistants was attractive, though that resulted in her being reassigned because she was destracting me.

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  • I'm slightly confused. You have multiple crushes on a single therapist? Are you seeing him/her for your dissociative identity disorder by any chance?

    Or more seriously, do you mean you sometimes get a crush on your therapist, then it goes away, comes back, etc?

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  • I would say getting a crush on literally anyone is normal. Nothing you can control. It makes sense to get a crush on someone who may actually understand you and help you in a way.

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  • What do you mean sometimes?

    You either have one or you don't.

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