Is it normal that i seem to not to fit at all and talk to myself?

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For some odd reason, I seem to make enemies almost ANYWHERE I GO!

School: Can't find no-one who even likes the same type of music, hobbies, anything.

Trying to socialize: No-one gives me normal human conversation, just smile, go 'uh-huh', and move on with their friends even if they were completely ignoring them a second ago.

Anywhere else: Same.

The only friend I actually trust I don't even know in real-life.

And now, I start talking to myself or commenting on other people's conversation.

So, is this normal or am I proceeding down the path the school-shooters go?

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  • Aliceee93
    10 years ago | pl

    I'm the same but it's cause I'm shy :O what music are you into?(:

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  • la_uva_mojada
    10 years ago | pl

    I had an awkward time socially myself in school too. Now as an adult i've evolved a lot. No one would ever guess that now as I'm sociable and popular. About a couple months ago I realized I have a violet aura. That's one of the things about us violets.. hard time growing up, creative, different.. is that you too?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Listen to Ill Bill - Anatomy of a School Shooting. It helped me a lot through being alienated in such a way at school.

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  • lola27
    12 years ago | pl

    I think the key word is 'school'. HS is probably the worst place to learn about how people really feel about you.

    All sorts of BS comes out of the mouths of hormonal, unstable, developing minds. One minute someone seems like your best friend and then it's like they don't like you at all.

    It doesn't excuse the behavior (everyone deserves to be treated with respect), but it's an opportunity for you to learn good social skills by overcoming these limitations. Just bare in mind that it's by mutual negotiation and it's not easy (because they're just as paranoid about being popular/hated as you are). But later in life, as we mellow out, we learn to let the people who stayed in the HS mindset drown in the water cooler while we go over there and not give a toss.

    So yeah, you're totally normal :)

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  • Dreamboat
    12 years ago | pl

    I guess its kinda normal. I too feel as if I make enemies everywhere I go. As soon as I look at them, I think I am giving off a bad expression to them and they don't like me cus of the expression I gave off. I feel as if I look at them in a mad way or hating type of way even though I may not be...its weird

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  • DanceLoveSingLive
    12 years ago | pl

    its not normal but not un normal... if that makes sense.....let me explain, not everyone (emphasis on the everyone) has that problem but it doesnt mean its unusual. someother people might have your personality, or hobbies of intrests you just need to find them.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    You remind me of myself. Except I don't make enemies tho. People just aren't into the things I am into. Nowadays you have the Internet to help with that.

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