She gives him some sort of monetary support (rides, money, a place to stay, etc.) She either does not see that she is being used or is fine with it in exchange for the company (low self-esteem due to aforementioned reasons and doesn't believe she is worth anything better).
Due to aforementioned reasons, she has low self-esteem and he is an abuser, and she allows him to abuse her and he sticks with her because she provides an outlet for his abusive tendencies and she feels that she can't do better ("I'm fat and helpless and a horrible person")
She did not look as bad before they got together and something happened (maybe a health problem or one of the aforementioned reasons, depression, or another factor which would cause her to use food as a method of comfort) and he is committed enough to the relationship to stay (maybe due to having children or financial obligations, being a traditional dude or maybe he really likes her).
SHE is an abuser and HE is the one with self-confidence issues due to having a poor upbringing.
They met online and he "fell in love with her" without full comprehension of her physical image and was easily able to overcome her outward appearance by that virtue.
Or she has a great personality and he loves that about her enough to overlook the weight problem. Maybe it is something that she has been fighting and he is her "battle buddy".
Either way, they met, they talked, it happened. Not everyone is as horribly disgusted by those kind of things as you. I see them all of the time. They no longer even phase me.
IIN That I saw this skinny guy with this fat nasty obese woman?
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OK, I'll copy paste here.
She gives him some sort of monetary support (rides, money, a place to stay, etc.) She either does not see that she is being used or is fine with it in exchange for the company (low self-esteem due to aforementioned reasons and doesn't believe she is worth anything better).
Due to aforementioned reasons, she has low self-esteem and he is an abuser, and she allows him to abuse her and he sticks with her because she provides an outlet for his abusive tendencies and she feels that she can't do better ("I'm fat and helpless and a horrible person")
She did not look as bad before they got together and something happened (maybe a health problem or one of the aforementioned reasons, depression, or another factor which would cause her to use food as a method of comfort) and he is committed enough to the relationship to stay (maybe due to having children or financial obligations, being a traditional dude or maybe he really likes her).
SHE is an abuser and HE is the one with self-confidence issues due to having a poor upbringing.
They met online and he "fell in love with her" without full comprehension of her physical image and was easily able to overcome her outward appearance by that virtue.
Or she has a great personality and he loves that about her enough to overlook the weight problem. Maybe it is something that she has been fighting and he is her "battle buddy".
Either way, they met, they talked, it happened. Not everyone is as horribly disgusted by those kind of things as you. I see them all of the time. They no longer even phase me.