I could see why you are upset. Maybe you need to talk to your wife about it? Tell her how you feel. If that hasn't worked, then I'm not sure what will. You maybe could keep telling your wife that you are serious though, and all of this bothers you. WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT let her know that you resent her, and do not start treating the step daughter like crap. That would be very wrong, and she is only 13...she is going through puberty and many changes in her brain(I have taken psychology classes)...it's just an adolescent phase. BUT, your wife is giving into every second of it as it seems...and that is just going to keep making it worse! If your step daughter knows she has control and can manipulate, she will continue. If the behavior isn't stopped, it can only get worse...and I don't believe that it would even be her fault. The fault is kind of on your wife sorry to say....Nature Vs. Nurture...
IIN That i resent my stepdaughter too the point that I cant stand her?
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I could see why you are upset. Maybe you need to talk to your wife about it? Tell her how you feel. If that hasn't worked, then I'm not sure what will. You maybe could keep telling your wife that you are serious though, and all of this bothers you. WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT let her know that you resent her, and do not start treating the step daughter like crap. That would be very wrong, and she is only 13...she is going through puberty and many changes in her brain(I have taken psychology classes)...it's just an adolescent phase. BUT, your wife is giving into every second of it as it seems...and that is just going to keep making it worse! If your step daughter knows she has control and can manipulate, she will continue. If the behavior isn't stopped, it can only get worse...and I don't believe that it would even be her fault. The fault is kind of on your wife sorry to say....Nature Vs. Nurture...