I am bipolar and I think not dating her is a very smart choice at the moment. She has more problems than being bipolar. Right now, you are saving yourself a ton of grief and drama by not committing yourself in a relationship with her. Maybe one day she will get tired of the emotional roller coaster ride and decide to take her illness a little more seriously, and stop drinking excessively and make her treatment plan an everyday part of her life.
Plus, Bugsforbreakfast is right, jealousy and neediness will tear your relationship pretty quickly.
And Never Never go into a relationship with the thinking you can fix someone or make them better.
She has to want to get better for no one but herself or she will never be happy no matter what you do. The old saying you can't truly love someone till you are able to love yourself is full of truth. I don't think she can't do that right now. That doesn't mean she never will, but for now, taking care of your own issues should definitely be first priority.
Is it normal that I rejected a girl because she was bipolar?
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I am bipolar and I think not dating her is a very smart choice at the moment. She has more problems than being bipolar. Right now, you are saving yourself a ton of grief and drama by not committing yourself in a relationship with her. Maybe one day she will get tired of the emotional roller coaster ride and decide to take her illness a little more seriously, and stop drinking excessively and make her treatment plan an everyday part of her life.
Plus, Bugsforbreakfast is right, jealousy and neediness will tear your relationship pretty quickly.
And Never Never go into a relationship with the thinking you can fix someone or make them better.
She has to want to get better for no one but herself or she will never be happy no matter what you do. The old saying you can't truly love someone till you are able to love yourself is full of truth. I don't think she can't do that right now. That doesn't mean she never will, but for now, taking care of your own issues should definitely be first priority.