Okay guys, the question isn't "Is it ethical/morally right to want to seduce her professor?" The question is "IS IT NORMAL to WANT to seduce her professor". Want is also very different from actually doing it. She never said she's going to do it, just that she probably fantasizes about it sometimes. Personally, I think it's very normal to be attracted to your professor. He's a man, he has a degree of power over your grade and it might get interpreted that he has a degree of power of you (that as an ambitious girl like yourself, might be a huge turn on for you) and obviously he's smart, which means he knows a lot more than you which again falls back into your ambitions and how much you'd probably want to emulate that. So really your attraction might just be spurred on by your competitive nature to want to dominate over that which appears to have reached their goals/ambitions. It might also be a way for you to achieve a secret thrill in differentiating yourself from the rest of the class by somehow impacting the professor in a way no one else has (a challenge of sorts). It all relates back to ambition, power and how you interpret sex. Believe it or not, a lot of women are like this. Almost every female has felt this way some time or another towards a male she admires and aspires to be like in some way. Sometimes it's actually a healthy thing in a relationship (though as you evolve you'll probably begin to seek more of a complimentary relationship with someone as opposed to one spurred by competitive admiration but a healthy dose of competitive is always nice!). In this case though, the cure to this one would just be to remember you're in an isolated environment (class). He only has power that extends up to a point and know that if he were in your seat, and learning from another professor...you wouldn't feel the same feeling towards him you do now.
Is it normal that I really want to seduce my married professor?
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Okay guys, the question isn't "Is it ethical/morally right to want to seduce her professor?" The question is "IS IT NORMAL to WANT to seduce her professor". Want is also very different from actually doing it. She never said she's going to do it, just that she probably fantasizes about it sometimes. Personally, I think it's very normal to be attracted to your professor. He's a man, he has a degree of power over your grade and it might get interpreted that he has a degree of power of you (that as an ambitious girl like yourself, might be a huge turn on for you) and obviously he's smart, which means he knows a lot more than you which again falls back into your ambitions and how much you'd probably want to emulate that. So really your attraction might just be spurred on by your competitive nature to want to dominate over that which appears to have reached their goals/ambitions. It might also be a way for you to achieve a secret thrill in differentiating yourself from the rest of the class by somehow impacting the professor in a way no one else has (a challenge of sorts). It all relates back to ambition, power and how you interpret sex. Believe it or not, a lot of women are like this. Almost every female has felt this way some time or another towards a male she admires and aspires to be like in some way. Sometimes it's actually a healthy thing in a relationship (though as you evolve you'll probably begin to seek more of a complimentary relationship with someone as opposed to one spurred by competitive admiration but a healthy dose of competitive is always nice!). In this case though, the cure to this one would just be to remember you're in an isolated environment (class). He only has power that extends up to a point and know that if he were in your seat, and learning from another professor...you wouldn't feel the same feeling towards him you do now.