We talk, too. Just last night, we were having a great conversation about where she used to live, my business, and some of the crazy things we've seen. I had her laughing. She has a beautiful, bright smile that's very warm and disarming.
I used to be one of these girls. She probably has no real interest in you, just what you can give her. I was a bartender and a dancer, I 'went to the city' with guys I met at work...and the whole time, I was just looking for other opportunities to meet other guys I was actually attracted to (or I had a boyfriend already) and just letting the dumb clod buy me stuff and take me places. Sometimes we'd get physical just because you have to to keep up the charade. I don't know of a single girl I used to work with that did not do the same thing if they engaged outside of work with customers...the only ones who didn't do this were the ones who never even so much as talked to customers outside of work. The odds of going from a customer to a real part of her life is practically zero. You're pretty much 100% getting played.
I don't doubt there are some girls like that, and, to be honest..I see it as equal taking. We both get something out of it. The guy gets to spend time with a younger, hot woman, a little physical action, and it's all good. In my case, I have maintained contact with most and remain friends long after. Takes time, yes, but it's good to have a personal friendship outside of that environment and connect as people.
Only difference between what you said and I do is, I don't go after or date the ones with boyfriends or significant others. As for spending money on them, I'm careful with that, and, really..Lot of them aren't that high maintenance and require constant spending, gifts, etc. Call it what you want, but like I said..We both get something out of it. And, to be honest..These girls are a dime a dozen. Lose one, and there's 20 behind her.
IIN that I really want to be with an older man?
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We talk, too. Just last night, we were having a great conversation about where she used to live, my business, and some of the crazy things we've seen. I had her laughing. She has a beautiful, bright smile that's very warm and disarming.
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I used to be one of these girls. She probably has no real interest in you, just what you can give her. I was a bartender and a dancer, I 'went to the city' with guys I met at work...and the whole time, I was just looking for other opportunities to meet other guys I was actually attracted to (or I had a boyfriend already) and just letting the dumb clod buy me stuff and take me places. Sometimes we'd get physical just because you have to to keep up the charade. I don't know of a single girl I used to work with that did not do the same thing if they engaged outside of work with customers...the only ones who didn't do this were the ones who never even so much as talked to customers outside of work. The odds of going from a customer to a real part of her life is practically zero. You're pretty much 100% getting played.
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I don't doubt there are some girls like that, and, to be honest..I see it as equal taking. We both get something out of it. The guy gets to spend time with a younger, hot woman, a little physical action, and it's all good. In my case, I have maintained contact with most and remain friends long after. Takes time, yes, but it's good to have a personal friendship outside of that environment and connect as people.
Only difference between what you said and I do is, I don't go after or date the ones with boyfriends or significant others. As for spending money on them, I'm careful with that, and, really..Lot of them aren't that high maintenance and require constant spending, gifts, etc. Call it what you want, but like I said..We both get something out of it. And, to be honest..These girls are a dime a dozen. Lose one, and there's 20 behind her.
That's cute. Best of luck to you <3